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Should a man be force/compelled to 'marry' a woman that he's 'accidentally' made pregnant ?

I don't think so. Since when has marriage had anything to do with being a parent? You can be a fantastic relationship partner but a completely shit parent, or a fantastic parent but completely shit at relationships.

I don't buy that there's any linking between 'christian values' and being married. Or being a parent.

But others may beg to differ.
anythingoes477 · M Best Comment
Just asking.....but how does a guy "accidentally" make someone pregnant? He just walks down the street with a hardon and then he trips and BAM....he accidentally lands in a girls pussy? 😆 🤣 😂
@anythingoes477 Thanks for BA. ❤
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@anythingoes477 Indeed - there's no 'accident' about conception - it's a deliberate act. But remember it takes two to tango so the woman is just as responsible as the man for taking steps to prevent unwanted pregnancy and step 1 is DO NOT HAVE SEX! Followed by steps 2 to 10 which also are DO NO HAVE SEX!

If you have sex with someone (this applies to us women just as much as men) then you are partly responsible for whatever the consequences are. it's not all the man's responsibility, or all the woman's responsibility.

This only changes where sex is non consensual - ie. it's RAPE! And rape can be committed by a woman just as much as by a man.

Amberswallows · 22-25, F
Marry, NO, however if the child is to be raised the the daddy needs to be involved unless he's just a trashy loser that the kid is better off without.
Tanya02 · 41-45, F
Any guy who ‘accidentally’ tried to make me pregnant would not have been around to marry me. My dad would have seen to that!
Ravens80 · 46-50, F
How about be responsible in the first place and use all means of protection necessary!
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
He shouldn't be compelled but he should not walk away from her. Leaving a lady with emotional stress is not good at all. Especially for something both cherished but it lead to something unexpected. Man should be there for her, both should discuss it and get it aborted as soon as possible if both conclude the discussion with mutual-agreement. Man and woman should split the abortion bill. Both did it. Both should pay for it. Half-Half!
Rizzle420 · M
@TallMtnMedic 51/49... the woman has to carry the baby and can die from labor so that's worth the deciding 1% imo
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SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@TallMtnMedic
What if the guy diesnt want it aborted? He has a say 50/50.

Like I said before, it all depends upon mutual agreement. In case, either of the two aren't on the same page then better not spoil a to be born's life. Let it be aborted.

Be it a man or woman, if he/she is adamant about keeping the baby then he/she must bear majority of the expenses himself/herself. Better to take legal help, so that the two cannot accuse each other for anything later.
NatureGuy77 · 56-60, M
He should be forced to financially help support his offspring or else
Rizzle420 · M
@NatureGuy77 but it's a woman's responsibility not to let a man who wouldn't be willing to be a father impregnate her... having all the power during the pregnancy means you carry all the responsibility beforehand
NatureGuy77 · 56-60, M
@Rizzle420 Guys split and don’t live up to their responsibilities. It happens way to often.,
Rizzle420 · M
@NatureGuy77 then those are guys that shouldn't be getting laid... but just as there are men that will split there are women that choose an obviously unfit man to try and make a father out of and then act shocked when he bolts (and then expect my tax dollars to help support them)
I would argue that the reason that this was a thing was because marriage didn't used to be about love - that is a relatively modern concept, instead it was about securing support to make the next generation and provide security. These days we have other mechanisms to force absent fathers to support their children so compelling marriage is not really needed.
gdon39 · 46-50, M
Forced marriage sounds doomed to fail.

I’m hopeful that with all of the information, internet and other things that parents are getting better and understand more than they did 20 years ago. Stop laughing at my Naivety. I just want the best for everyone
He shouldn't be forced into marriage with someone who may not want him or he doesn't want but he needs to take responsibility for providing for the child.
@Onestarlitnight Whst happens if the women is prochoice, shouldnt the same apply for the male?
It is between the two concerned. Today's generation change colors every other minute. Let the subjects handle theirs n the forthcomng life.
calicuz · 56-60, M
No, but in my opinion, every child deserves two parents in the home.
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@calicuz Split/seperated families are basically the 'norm' these days. Gone are the days when there's any 'normal' family of mum + dad + kids all living happily together.
calicuz · 56-60, M
@butterflybaby75

I know, but they shouldn't be the norm.
The state doesn’t care.l,they are too busy inspecting womens wombs for signs of life,
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
If they put the child there, why must it face their negligence at its time of need?
scrood · 31-35
Forced by whom?
Elisbch · M
agreed 🙂
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
empanadas · 31-35, M
Naw it's 2022
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