Should a man be force/compelled to 'marry' a woman that he's 'accidentally' made pregnant ?

I don't think so. Since when has marriage had anything to do with being a parent? You can be a fantastic relationship partner but a completely shit parent, or a fantastic parent but completely shit at relationships.

I don't buy that there's any linking between 'christian values' and being married. Or being a parent.

But others may beg to differ.

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SoLeRiMix · 36-40, M

He shouldn't be compelled but he should not walk away from her. Leaving a lady with emotional stress is not good at all. Especially for something both cherished but it lead to something unexpected. Man should be there for her, both should discuss it and get it aborted as soon as possible if both conclude the discussion with mutual-agreement. Man and woman should split the abortion bill. Both did it. Both should pay for it. Half-Half!

TallMtnMedic · M

@SoLeRiMix What if the guy diesnt want it aborted? He has a say 50/50.

Rizzle420 · M

@TallMtnMedic 51/49... the woman has to carry the baby and can die from labor so that's worth the deciding 1% imo

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SoLeRiMix · 36-40, M

@TallMtnMedic

What if the guy diesnt want it aborted? He has a say 50/50.

Like I said before, it all depends upon mutual agreement. In case, either of the two aren't on the same page then better not spoil a to be born's life. Let it be aborted.

Be it a man or woman, if he/she is adamant about keeping the baby then he/she must bear majority of the expenses himself/herself. Better to take legal help, so that the two cannot accuse each other for anything later.