Living at home isn't embarrassing

With a healthy family that makes sense. With a toxic family it is essential for your growth to get out.

Agreed.
I totally understand wanting independence and living on your own but there's nothing wrong with a family unit staying together multigenerationally.

There should be no embarrassment attached to something like living at home with family.
There is some benefit to independent living and the skills it brings to someone, but I am not convinced it is better for young people to go out in the world in the name of independence if it means all they do is struggle. And there should be no shame attached to knowing what is better for your personal circumstance.

Agree nothing wrong with living at home with your parents

I feel deeply ashamed of it, in part because I'm reliant on people who support me for reasons that I don't even agree with. I feel like I'm a welfare queen here, I'm getting out as soon as I possibly can.

nothing wrong with living at with parents many are doing it here where i live ,,, cause of the low wages and high cost of places ,, it is the only way for them to live and be able to work ,,, or go to school ,,, and if things continue like they are ,,, more young people will continue to live with family ,,,

Society expects young people to have their entire act together soon after high school. That is not even close to practical though. Especially because most jobs don't pay jack squat.

Of course older folks (my age and up) talk about how right after high school, they worked three jobs while raising a family and going to school and taking care of some sick relative. In most cases that is BS. Even if someone were trying to do that, it would not be sustainable for real long. Maybe a week?

Also, the "powers that should not be" want us to feel ashamed of everything we do (or don't do).

I hear a lot of 30 year olds talk about how they thought they would be rich and have traveled the world by now. A few have, most have not.

All I am saying is - don't let anyone try to BS you.

Do you approve of a husband's discipline his wife??

Agreed!

I lived at home as long as I could. I avoided debt that way, and my parents were fine with it. I regret nothing about it.

If I'd stayed at home... I'd likely be dead by now. There's no way that I could have lived with another 19 years of abuse 24/7.

True to an extent, but eventually you need your own place to do your things, and privacy to live your life

I've never been one to care what society does and thinks at large. I think outside the media, political and internet circus, and, in real life, where it matters, many people are indifferent to what others are doing and are more concerned for themselves and what's best for them. That's what should matter always and the only thing that does.

I don't have an issue with it, and my own kids (who are adult Zoomers) live at home (my son with me and my daughter with my ex), and I want to be 100% sure they can survive out there on their own before they actually leave.

There's the probs. Neither has any "life" skills, nor initiative for learning them. If I croaked tomorrow, I honestly don't know what TF they would do.

That’s a good point.

I feel no shame in currently living at home with my parents. They said I could always live with them. Of course I want to be on my own soon and they want that for me too, but for now it makes more sense for me to live with them.

I agree prices of food and gas is way too expensive plus rent and utilities

I’m not embarrassed. It’s expensive to move out on my own and not really practical right now.

This is really well said!! You are wise beyond your years! Sent you a DM. Hope you are having a great daY!

Mayby the government even wants to cut family boundaries sothat you are more dependent on the state.

If you continue living with your parents will you still get disciplined?

living with home and keep your relation with family are very important

I got a couple cousins that never moved out they are in their 40s now

It surely isn't a good reason to end up on antidepressants.

Do you still get disciplined if so who does it?

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Well said

I agree! :)

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it, if you get along with your parents and are considerate. And living alone isn’t financially practical for many young people nowadays. It’s the folks in their 40s and still think their parents owe them who get on my nerves. 😳

It should be somewhat embarrassing.

Pay some rent, and do some chores?

At least pay rent.