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Ever experienced this kind of abuse?

As a kid (and a very unhappy one), sometimes my witchy mother would get very angry and she'd grab me by the forearm and whirl me around the room while screaming at me. She wouldn't beat me up--the furniture would do that! I'd always feel it was basically my fault for being clumsy and tripping over the furniture or banging into it. Often these incidents would end with me becoming so dizzy I'd just fall down in a heap and be too dizzy to get back up again while my mother stood there laughing at me for my idiotic helplessness.
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I never had that at home, but had many similar experiences with teachers at school, like being dragged out of my seat by my hair, caned, kicked, had my feet stomped on and if i cried it'd be done harder... some adults need to be kept far away from children.
redredred · M
You’re a survivor. Take some pride and comfort from that. Piss on her grave if you get the chance or walk your dog on her grave. Borrow a dog if you don’t have one.
redredred · M
@greenmountaingal my pleasure and my purpose
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@redredred Are you any relation to the outlaw Texas Red in the popular western ballad Big Iron? One of my favorite songs.
redredred · M
@greenmountaingal no, but I’ve been to Texas many times. And I’d love to go back.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@greenmountaingirl ] 😪 so sorry your mother found it necessary to treat you so badly . some adults do not deserve to have kids
smiler2012 · 56-60
@greenmountaingal 🤔 grateful for what exactly this was unnecessary abuse
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@smiler2012 Adoptees are supposed to be grateful that their adoptive parents "took them in." So anything the parents do is OK from that point of view. Adoptees are the only children who are supposed to be at least tolerant of, if not outright grateful for, abuse from their parents.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@greenmountaingal what an ignorant attitude others have about kids adopted
kodiac · 22-25, M
Yes. Pull the chair from under me ,push me down the stairs, that one broke my arm . Face slaps just out of the blue then laugh. These were my fosters not other kids.
pedrohedgerow · 61-69, M
My father was a powerful man,boxed for the navy and won medals.He also threw me against walls because I wasnt christian enough.Been there,and hugs ❤️
Carlisle · F
I’m so sorry to hear that. As a child that must have been so frightening. Sending you lots of warm hugs. 💔💔💔

And it’s super brave to share this too. I find ir difficult to share but when others do it gives me courage.
So thank you for sharing.
Carlisle · F
@greenmountaingal I hope you will be able to heal. Know that it wasn’t your fault. Parents are supposed to safeguard their children.
My mom had issues but it’s taken a long time for her to realise. I felt a lot of guilt speaking up about it as if I was being disloyal somehow.
You did nothing to deserve that and you deserved to feel safe in your own home. Sending you lots of healing vibes especially to your inner child. ❤️‍🩹
And this is your truth. Anyone who judges you and blames you I would distance yourself from them. Surround yourself with kindness and understanding. You were just a child and you were the vulnerable one.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Carlisle From my experience, people more often takes the side of the abuser. Very few have ever taken my side.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@greenmountaingal I remember people acting like they were afraid of getting involved. I don’t think anyone took his side though. Maybe they feared for their own selves as most were elderly or maybe they thought if they tried to intercede that he would take it out on us. Living in a small village everyone in that village knew very well what my father was doing, he was drunk & violent. I wondered why someone didn’t call in on him, we were not in a police district but the sheriff could have been called. It ended badly there when he kidnapped a 17-year old boy, tied him up & brought him to the house and beat the crap out of him for a couple of hours, maiming him in the process….broken noise, ribs, arms broken in about 8 places and bruises and cuts all over his body. He let him go eventually and he found his way to the blacktop road a couple blocks down the road and flagged a driver down to take him to get him help.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Sadly it's not as uncommon as people think.
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yes ngl i spent so many years being mad at the way she treated me but now she's getting old so i get to have leverage over her and i love it
I'm sorry, Did she apologize ever?
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@RadiantRuby No. People like this always believe they are right.
@greenmountaingal I hope you find peace! You deserved a loving mother!
My mother was a narcissist. You are not alone! You are a beautiful soul!
I'm sorry for your experience in this life. Please find ways to love yourself, it's never too late!
@greenmountaingal You are here for a reason, screw everyone that hurt you! I am glad you are here!
Sharky86 · 36-40, M
My dad used to use the furniture as weapon.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
That’s awful!
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Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Coralmist Whoever replied to my reply, I wasn't able to view🙁
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Coralmist You are a true survivor.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@greenmountaingal You are too Green mountain, you did not deserve it at all🌼🐞🌺

 
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