I want to be pregnant so bad even though I shouldn't.

@Allelse You watch too much anime

@Miram i think he doesn't watch enough anime!

@Miram All those pissy feminists squawking about Lara Croft from Tomb Raider, saying "OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! Women with breasts that large couldn't do what she does in the game, she wouldn't be able to do that, it's all fake and unrealistic!!!". You know!!! I think that's a very poor attitude to have!! What they're saying is that women with big tits cant be acrobatic, kick ass tomb raiders with dual pistols!!! Which is very anti-feminist, they're saying "Well because of your dimensions you cant be a kick ass tomb raider". When really they should be telling girls "Guess what!!! If you work at it, you can be whatever you want".

@bijouxbroussard He would still be there for the child and I. He does want children, just not yet. I definitely agree with you though and know I need to focus on other things. Just baby fever lol

@AnxietyMaci If he doesn't want children now, you shouldn't get pregnant.

I am not sure why you are opposing her valid points unless you want to do it against his consent.

Which is HORRIBLE and proves you are unfit to be a parent.

@Miram I wouldn't do anything without his consent. If an accident truly happened I'd be ecstatic though. I'm also not opposing her points and think she's made the best ones out of everyone.

@Beatbox34 Money is no issue.
We make about 100k a year combined.

@AnxietyMaci Good for you. I still wouldn't recommend it. It's your life, your call lol

@User43 my head exploded when I read that.

@AnxietyMaci chicken lab? 😳

@Patrickmason2021 chocolate lab haha

@AnxietyMaci oh lol 😂 well thats good you have furry friends :) trust me having a child isnt the easiest thing to do.. But best of luck to ya hun 🤗

@Allelse not a fetish wtf. I'm not turned on to the thought. I just want to be a mom. 🤷🏼‍♀️

@AnxietyMaci Being a parent is a life long commitment, and you can't just decide you dont want to be a parent anymore just because you've had enough. And what if your kid is born fucked up like some kids are, oh sure raise them right, but if there's bad wiring? You don't know what you could be unleashing on the world. It's not all about you.

@Allelse He does want kid. Just not till his 30s. Dump your trauma elsewhere. Pedo is a huge reach and accusation.

@AnxietyMaci Nope, this is a place for us to express ourselves and our thoughts so I'll put my trauma wherever I like, if you don't like it then tough shit. The more people realize how widespread child abuse is, the better the world will be. And you're what, 18-21? How well do you ever know the 'future father of your children' ? He could be a kiddy fiddler for all you know.

@Allelse 20 and I've known him for awhile. He's not a pedophile. Once again, that's a huge accusation.

@AnxietyMaci i dont think thats true. just ask yourself why you want to have a baby i suppose? i dont htink itd be shallow to leave him for that reason. if you want a baby more than you want him without a baby, its not shallow its practical. the way you stated it he doesnt want kids. cant say if he ever will in the future

@Candie he's already confirmed he wants kids just a bit later in life. Why does anyone want a kid?

@AnxietyMaci well. thats good you added the YET

@Wiseacre he wants one in the future. Two actually lol.

@GunFinger I'm a teacher :) just want a bachelor's in social work

@AnxietyMaci ok. Maybe wait for your partner to want to have kids so he can help you. Bringing up kids in this world is quite hard if it's only you who wants them.

@empanadas I can't wait for this answer