I want to be pregnant so bad even though I shouldn't.

I start college for a bachelor's degree in January. My body isn't at 100%. Most importantly, my boyfriend doesn't want a child YET. I'm 20 and he's 25. But I want a kid so badly.

Edit: Y'all we have a steady income and both have careers. I'm just wanting to advance mine.

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Candie · F

having children for selfish reasons is never a good idea imo. but then hey maybe you want one so bad for a reason. maybe you need ot look for a new boyfriend

AnxietyMaci · 22-25, F

@Candie I wouldn't leave my boyfriend for him not wanting kids yet. That's shallow.

And there isn't an unselfish reason to have kids. We want kids because we want them.

Candie · F

@AnxietyMaci i dont think thats true. just ask yourself why you want to have a baby i suppose? i dont htink itd be shallow to leave him for that reason. if you want a baby more than you want him without a baby, its not shallow its practical. the way you stated it he doesnt want kids. cant say if he ever will in the future

AnxietyMaci · 22-25, F

@Candie he's already confirmed he wants kids just a bit later in life. Why does anyone want a kid?

Candie · F

@AnxietyMaci well. thats good you added the YET