I want to be pregnant so bad even though I shouldn't.

I start college for a bachelor's degree in January. My body isn't at 100%. Most importantly, my boyfriend doesn't want a child YET. I'm 20 and he's 25. But I want a kid so badly.

Edit: Y'all we have a steady income and both have careers. I'm just wanting to advance mine.

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bijouxbroussard · F

Not to be unkind, but it’s not like deciding you want a pet. Everything stops being about you once the child is born. Any other plans you have, like school, go on hold. And if your partner doesn’t want one, that’s less help you have, emotionally and financially.

GunFinger · F

@bijouxbroussard this.👆

AnxietyMaci · 22-25, F

@bijouxbroussard He would still be there for the child and I. He does want children, just not yet. I definitely agree with you though and know I need to focus on other things. Just baby fever lol

Miram · 31-35, F

@AnxietyMaci If he doesn't want children now, you shouldn't get pregnant.

I am not sure why you are opposing her valid points unless you want to do it against his consent.

Which is HORRIBLE and proves you are unfit to be a parent.

AnxietyMaci · 22-25, F

@Miram I wouldn't do anything without his consent. If an accident truly happened I'd be ecstatic though. I'm also not opposing her points and think she's made the best ones out of everyone.