I want to be pregnant so bad even though I shouldn't.

I start college for a bachelor's degree in January. My body isn't at 100%. Most importantly, my boyfriend doesn't want a child YET. I'm 20 and he's 25. But I want a kid so badly.

Edit: Y'all we have a steady income and both have careers. I'm just wanting to advance mine.

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Cutiepi23

Most importantly your boyfriend doesnt want a baby you say. Do you want to be a single mother with no education if your boyfriend takes off?

Allelse · 36-40, M

@Cutiepi23 Yeah he might be a pedophile who hates children like my dad is, and he made it clear he never wanted kids. But, my sister and I still managed to be birthed.

AnxietyMaci · 22-25, F

@Cutiepi23 I have education and a full time career. K just want to further it. He does want children. Just not yet, he wants them in his 30s.

AnxietyMaci · 22-25, F

@Allelse He does want kid. Just not till his 30s. Dump your trauma elsewhere. Pedo is a huge reach and accusation.

Allelse · 36-40, M

@AnxietyMaci Nope, this is a place for us to express ourselves and our thoughts so I'll put my trauma wherever I like, if you don't like it then tough shit. The more people realize how widespread child abuse is, the better the world will be. And you're what, 18-21? How well do you ever know the 'future father of your children' ? He could be a kiddy fiddler for all you know.

AnxietyMaci · 22-25, F

@Allelse 20 and I've known him for awhile. He's not a pedophile. Once again, that's a huge accusation.