"Just because no one will ever want you"

These are words that have stuck with me. Was told this at 14 by a girl about the same age. So clearly there is something wrong with me.

Why would anyone care anyway.

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MellyMel22 · F

[i][c=BF0080]Well she sounds like she was just a spoiled little b*tch. Don’t hold on to that and let her win! [/c][/i]

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MellyMel22 · F

@KiwiDan [i][c=BF0080]Well you aren’t ugly. You just need to remind yourself. One day you’ll find the right type of girl. [/c][/i]

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@MellyMel22 What I want is to be shown that in real life. Hopefully that makes sense. Like, it's one thing for people online to say something, but another entirely to have that expressed to your face, you know?

MellyMel22 · F

@KiwiDan [i][c=BF0080]I understand![/c][/i]

Foreverconfused · 56-60, F

That person was hurt … you should not listen to an angry hurt person unless they are trying to keep you from HURTING others. It’s a battle of words and she probably had it said to her. We learn how to speak by listening to others. It’s tragic she has heard that and THEN it’s also tragic you had it directed at you. You know there is a certain insecurity in everyone that makes us feel unworthy of love and care. I wish I had a magic wand to erase that memory. It was a sad and horrible thing. May you replace that by counting your blessings: what you do have. 2 eyes, 2 hands? 2 feet? Just be thank for for that every day. Replace the ugly words with what you are grateful for.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

Come on, kids aged 11-15 say the nastiest things. I was told "you should be glad someone is interested in you at all" by my schoolmate when I was 12. I laugh at it now.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@CrazyMusicLover The problem lies with the fact that between then and now, she ended up being right.

spencer6 · 18-21, F

No, that’s not true, she’s just spiteful. I don’t understand why you would say such a cruel thing to anyone, feel hugged <3

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@spencer6 Thanks 🤗❤️ It's the fact that she was proven correct that causes it to stick with me.

Punxi · 26-30, F

Life takes place today bub.

HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M

Who takes advice from teenagers?

ExtremeNext · 31-35

14?

Dude you are long gone I'm sorry 😩

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ExtremeNext · 31-35

@KiwiDan it's called having a bit of fun and banter something you lack in both areas take a step back look in the mirror and smile or laugh even if it's at nothing it actually feels really nice

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@ExtremeNext while you're not wrong, it ceases being fun banter when you keep doing it after being asked to stop.

ExtremeNext · 31-35

@KiwiDan fine I have unfriended you maybe a block is better then
Sorry bye

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