There's different kinds of abuse. No one is going to have the exact same response to all the different kinds, so you can't really say for certain. On top of that, people sometimes go to therapy or take meds or find support to help them deal with their issues. You probably won't be able to see their childhood pain beyond all the healing or growth they've done

Always worrying about things, full of anxiety, insecure, feeling like a loser, that's what abuse does. It destroys your self worth.

Apologizing for things beyond their control
Making themself small/invisible
Seeming detached/fear of people getting too close
Very private
Keep things bottled up
Neuroticism

See that's the thing, if you look at them from the outside you'd never know. Because it was part of the problem to always make it look like everything is fine.

Tough love

Socially awkward and dysfunctional, stubborn, the cold outer control with seething rage bubbling just below the surface... until it doesn't want to stay there anymore!!!!

You know their immediate family

There is no one singular sign.

Everyone deals/doesn't deal with that shit in their own way.

Ita why people train to look for cues to abuse. It can be a spectrum thing.

When someone repeatedly takes off their headphones to make sure everything is ok.

Today's generation would think us GenXers were abused by getting our butts whooped.

Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Some will become people pleasers

They don't care about anything.

Silly Q

They're black 😂

Excessive people pleasing seems to be the most common trait I've seen

They vote Republican

MAGA hat?