What percentage of men and woman do you think have had rape fantacies?

@NerdyPotato Of course it is. You know yourself how fantasies work... at that sometimes, they can be very exact in terms of what is done, when, how and by who.

It doesn't make that fantasy any "less than" than any other fantasy. A rope bunny might enjoy being tied down - but not seeing their rigger restrained.

Same thing with the rape fantasy... some enjoy being "watched" - but not necessarily by their own dominant partner, who may or may not be restrained.

This is where the rape fantasy iceberg really starts to show how big and nuanced it truly is - and just how easy it can be to cross the line from a consensual fantasy into an actual crime.

@HootyTheNightOwl I guess this is something you need to experience to understand then.

@NerdyPotato It does... But it's both complicated and uncomplicated. Honestly.