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4meAndyou · F
Please allow me to give you some advice. Do NOT go out with people you don't like. If you do, you are saying to them, and to everyone who sees you with them, subliminally, that you LIKE them. That's lying.

Don't lie. Be straight. Be upfront. If you are looking for someone who just wants to hang out, say so.

Now you have to fix the mess you made...but you HAVE to fix it.
kakkaakak · 18-21, F
@4meAndyou you are right but i went out with him because i wanted to see how he acted cuz we only texted for a week but he isnt what i expected and i csnt see myself with him
4meAndyou · F
@kakkaakak Then you need to tell him it isn't working out, and keep looking for a hang out buddy.

Sutten · 36-40, F
Sounds like you want a friend with benefits. Make sure the other person involved knows this and wants the same. Sometimes people become emotionally involved and it would be sad to intentionally hurt someone. It's best to be open so everyone knows where they stand. All the best!
Tumbleweed · F
I agree with what Sutten said. If you just want a fwb, you have to be up front about it so nobody gets hurt, including yourself.
JPWhoo · 36-40, M
Just tell him what you told us. Communication is key in any type of relationship.
invisiblewoman · 36-40, F
Its ok maybe he doesn't like you either
YoMomma ·
You just want to use him but don't like him? That's not very nice..
TexChik · F
So you want to use him when you need him, and then he should disappear? He should drop you like a hot rock.

 
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