i need help i need answers

i have no idea how to word what im feeling. I don’t know what i want. Im just a kid but i feel so incomplete when i dont have an answer to something. Ive been talking to this boy for a few weeks now and we went out yesterday and it went fine i guess but everyone saw us together, even my ex. I dont even like the new guy but i feel bad to tell him that i dont want a relationship. I just want someone to be my friend and to sometimes make out or something but i dont know how to even label that. But what if im wrong? What if that is not what i actually want? Im so confused

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Sutten · 36-40, F

Sounds like you want a friend with benefits. Make sure the other person involved knows this and wants the same. Sometimes people become emotionally involved and it would be sad to intentionally hurt someone. It's best to be open so everyone knows where they stand. All the best!

Tumbleweed · F

I agree with what Sutten said. If you just want a fwb, you have to be up front about it so nobody gets hurt, including yourself.

4meAndyou · F

Please allow me to give you some advice. Do NOT go out with people you don't like. If you do, you are saying to them, and to everyone who sees you with them, subliminally, that you LIKE them. That's lying.

Don't lie. Be straight. Be upfront. If you are looking for someone who just wants to hang out, say so.

Now you have to fix the mess you made...but you HAVE to fix it.

kakkaakak · 18-21, F

@4meAndyou you are right but i went out with him because i wanted to see how he acted cuz we only texted for a week but he isnt what i expected and i csnt see myself with him

4meAndyou · F

@kakkaakak Then you need to tell him it isn't working out, and keep looking for a hang out buddy.

JPWhoo · 36-40, M

Just tell him what you told us. Communication is key in any type of relationship.

invisiblewoman · 36-40, F

Its ok maybe he doesn't like you either

SStarfish ·

You just want to use him but don't like him? That's not very nice..

TexChik · F

So you want to use him when you need him, and then he should disappear? He should drop you like a hot rock.

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