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How do you cope with your loneliness ?

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Spectra "He spent a lot of time alone in the woods." 🙈
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I go out,with friends or snuggle with my dogs. Pets are wonderful.
Foodie60 · 31-35, M
@Fungirlmmm indeed pets make great friends
robertsnj · 56-60, M
that is your first ever post on here? Talk to us. Why are you lonely and why do you find it hard to meet others?
Foodie60 · 31-35, M
@robertsnj thank you . This is very encouraging. I will talk
robertsnj · 56-60, M
@Foodie60 wait no. that wasn't an answer it is a question. Pretty please, why are you lonely and why do you feel it is difficult to meet others?
ABCDEF7 · M
Someone can be alone but not feel the loneliness. And someone can be occupied with people & friends but still feel lonely.

What I understand is that the loneliness is the product of distraction. The time you learns to concentrate instead of getting distracted, you may no longer feel loneliness.

By the way, you can go through below list.
https://similarworlds.com/self/lonely/2448731-67-Healthy-Things-To-Do-When-You-Feel-Sad-Bored-Lonely
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ABCDEF7 · M
@PleasurePunch It feels to you like that because you can't get satisfaction & happiness from the things you already have in your life. Someone else may have the things you feel anyone would need to feel complete, but they still feel incomplete for some other reason and have the feeling of loneliness.

You might remember when you were kid and you lost one of your tooth. Where did your attention and tongue used to go? to the missing tooth.. When the same you at that time was playing did you felt that missing tooth? No because you were happy and satisfied what you were doing. So it's about feeling contended & satisfied with what you already have.

I am not saying you should not have things you feel you are missing in your life. But you should try to enjoy whatever you have at present moment. Life is a journey, people come and go in our lives, like co passengers in a long train journey.
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GunFinger · F
I find a friend I can chat to.
GunFinger · F
@Foodie60 i mean a long time friend who I know understands my situation. A close friend.
Foodie60 · 31-35, M
@GunFinger I see
PleasurePunch · 100+
@GunFinger That is the ANTIDOTE to loneliness. Would that we all had that.
I SINK INTO A WARM VINEGAR BATH AND THINK WHILST SURROUNDED BY GARLIC AND OTHER SPICES
@TheLurkinGherkin Don't get too pickled there...
chasingThursday · 36-40, M
I come on here but this place tends to make me feel more alone sometimes
chasingThursday · 36-40, M
@PleasurePunch us lonely people need to stick together
PleasurePunch · 100+
@chasingThursday we lonely people don't know who to call (who will answer) and our phone never rings. There's a lot of mistrust among this crowd..u can understand why...
And non lonely people think we are losers so they will never call...
chasingThursday · 36-40, M
@PleasurePunch this is true
Am older feels better living alone. I feel very blessed not to have had children. The world has too many people. Feel good that I didnt add more. I don't feel lonely really. So many trump supporters I accept most people around me are out of their minds
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Im a workaholic 😒
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
I cope but often I don’t cope well.

I do my best to stay focused on my career. Spend time with family and socialize with other people when possible.

But it’s hard, especially at night.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
Get addicted to everything 😆😆😆.
I'm only joking . You have sit with it .
Can I tell you something? I don't feel loneliness at all will I tell you why cause I was rejected most of my life so I'm used it
TexasDude · 31-35, M
I usually see if my online friend is available. Sadly he's in another time zone. I also go for walks, watch movies, and just try to find something interesting to do
WillaKissing · 56-60
I do what I want to do when and how I wish to do it, when I feel the need for company I can always visit and return to my farm alone.
eventtemple123 · 22-25, M
I became a furry and found a group of accepting people who I actually fit in with and feel a sense of belonging around.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I like being alone for the most part. If it bothers me I do something around people.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I come here or go watch some videos where I can live some things at least vicariously.
Montanaman · M
I write.
Listen to music
Watch movies and shows
Summer i fish.

Surf SW.
Boleuskas · M
There are good days and bad days i guess
redredred · M
I revel in my alone time.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Mope, read a lot, clean.
Depends on the day
Merkabah · 22-25, F
Movies, food
exchrist · 31-35
SW-User
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I come here for a bit but usually I just keep to myself
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
my goals keep me going among other things
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