Shameful experience. I reached out to my ex boyfriend's gf just to find out why she was flirting with him while we were together and why she lied to m

Why reach out to her??? If he thought so highly of you, then he would have shut it down straight away without your input.

He's a big boy, too - and he has to be trusted to shut down any other girl who might try her luck with him without you holding his hand.

If he failed to do that, then your problem is with him, not her.

I'd probably ask myself what good could come from asking or knowing. I see none. Everyone loses. But I also understand how some need drama in their lives and will seek it out. I don't get that but I know others are wired differently. So I guess it's your call. Probably don't even need to ask the question. You know the answer that works best for you. Good luck.

Time to move on.

Some matters need permanently closer and those who enjoy others suffering, never wish to provide it so we keep burning.

If she knew you were together, then you can just be confident in knowing she made a shitty decision.

Your ex is an ex for a reason. It's infuriating and hurtful, whatever happened.

But It's best to let it go and let your own life continue on. 💙

What is a WhatsApp?

Just get a new one

How would knowing a reason help at this point ? Was she your friend before they got together ? Even if she was honest and said, "I was interested in him and hoped you guys would break up", what would it change ? 🥺

Nope, you're not wrong, if for any other reason, it may help you in future with bf's as to why it went sour

BUT

he's the problem, not YOU

I remember years ago when a Poliitician was found out by the media of cheating on his wife, he did the usual 'prepared statement' speaking to the media outside his home with the dutiful wife {and child} stood behind him, she was visibly shocked/upset, but no Reporter asked HER ...

"How does it feel, him cheating on you, now you know what his FIRST wife must have felt like when he was cheating on her with YOU"