Shameful experience. I reached out to my ex boyfriend's gf just to find out why she was flirting with him while we were together and why she lied to m

She responded by putting up psalm 35 on her WhatsApp status to defend herself it seems. Psalm 35 is basically a curse towards me and all I wanted was to find out why she lied and flirted with him, although she told me she wanted us to work on our relationship.Am I in the wrong for wanting to know this

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bijouxbroussard · F

How would knowing a reason help at this point ? Was she your friend before they got together ? Even if she was honest and said, "I was interested in him and hoped you guys would break up", what would it change ? 🥺

Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard she wasn't my friend but we spoke to each other before and she assured me she would stay away and let us work on our relationship.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Ladyofemotions Can you be certain he didn’t reach out ? Seriously, a man really trying to make his primary relationship work doesn’t take those calls or messages from another woman.

Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard I'm sure he did too.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Ladyofemotions I apologize if I sounded unkind. It’s just that I kind of know this story. Years ago, I was seeing someone who couldn’t seem to make up his mind. I made it about him, not her, because it was his decision. Then I decided to make my life simpler by not being one of his options. It wasn’t easy, but like @caccoon said, there are a lot of good people out there. Better options.
I wish you well.

Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard you aren't unkind. I'm just in that denial stage.