Shameful experience. I reached out to my ex boyfriend's gf just to find out why she was flirting with him while we were together and why she lied to m

She responded by putting up psalm 35 on her WhatsApp status to defend herself it seems. Psalm 35 is basically a curse towards me and all I wanted was to find out why she lied and flirted with him, although she told me she wanted us to work on our relationship.Am I in the wrong for wanting to know this

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HootyTheNightOwl

Why reach out to her??? If he thought so highly of you, then he would have shut it down straight away without your input.

He's a big boy, too - and he has to be trusted to shut down any other girl who might try her luck with him without you holding his hand.

If he failed to do that, then your problem is with him, not her.

Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F

@HootyTheNightOwl moment of weakness. She was involved in our relationship before but he told her he wanted to try with me. She assured me she left us to work on the relationship but the messages were flirtatious and she called him very often.

HootyTheNightOwl

@Ladyofemotions Ultimately, though, he had to be the one who put his foot down and told her "Enough is enough".

If she's bothering you with the calls and messages, you raise that with him and ask him to deal with his ex.

Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F

@HootyTheNightOwl she isn't bothering me. I am the one trying to find out why she was flirting ( I saw messages) when she gave me her word she would let my ex and me work on our relationship.