I must be getting depressed again

The feeling that there's nobody for me has been getting stronger again. So since nobody wants to be close to me anyway, I think I'm just going to stop with everything. We may be friends, but it's a work friendship - it doesn't extend beyond where we normally interact. And since it won't happen anyway, I have to learn to be touch-free and just cope. I know I'm great, but if nobody is interested then why should I be.

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Arrow17 · F

White people have a culture of not making friends and attach to people. They are very cold heart people and boring.

I make friends anywhere I go to Asia. People have a warm heart and they care about me.

I live in the UK for 15 years and make no friends. People have never ever contacted me from the previous job because Chinese have different principality and way of sorting out problems.

Thanks God, I am flying out from the UK next week for traveling until next year.

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Arrow17 · F

@SomeMichGuy I met those impressive people but they weren't my friends. They were my colleagues or teachers. They aren't friends.
They are good people but they don't have a warm heart. It is European culture and the way the have been brought up. It is their behaviour .

I don't need friends anymore here. I have nothing to missed in this country.

It isn't only me finding difficult to make friends. I talk to several white people that they can't make friends after living for a long time because they aren't origins from the location. A lot young people can't make friends especially in London areas.

This is their culture so nothing to blame.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Arrow17 European culture has spread prosperity and longevity to all continents... including Asia. You think you have no friends in Europe among white people, but we are your neighbours, your mentors, and yes... your warm-hearted friends. Perhaps you spurn us, but we care about you. Show some gratitude.

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Mordechai · 31-35, M

It's not you bud it's just always been and is rare to meet someone special. The stars have to align in lots of ways, some are great people but your lives diverge, some like you but you don't feel the same way, don't beat yourself up dude 🫂

HoeBag · 46-50, F

Yes it can be discouraging and depressing when we are on the "Struggling" side of romance but people forget something.

Being single, our lives are peaceful. Do we really want to get involved with someone who will be nice at first but soon start acting like a jack4ss? Bring someone in who will turn our lives upside down then just walk out one day? Deal with someone else's baggage?

Or the best - They have some ex that refuses to go away.

At best, relationships soon get boring and people basically end up more like "Good friends".

SomeMichGuy · M

@HoeBag

At best, relationships soon get boring and people basically end up more like "Good friends".

I'm sorry you have never found real connection.

Domination61 · M

There is someone out there for you and you WILL find them,please stay positive.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Yeah, I cycle through this myself.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@MarkPaul I'll be fine by tomorrow probably

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