🤷‍♀️ When you realized you’ve made a mistake in your choices of people or situations,

There is no mistake. There is a reason I thought that was the right person or situation. Usually it's mirroring something inside me or lacking in me and it's for me to figure out what and heal that.

Actually I do take inventory and always work from the assumption that I made the mistake and was the problem. Sometimes that is true, sometimes it is not. Either way I learn from that and try not to repeat it.

For many years, my first, and sometimes only, reaction was to blame myself. For a whole pile of reasons, some maybe good, some really bad. That's pretty human, I think, but it's certainly unhealthy.

I'm not at the "Just say YIKES and move on" stage, but I have realized that, for the most part, my mistakes are learning experiences, so I do my best to take what I can from them and carry on. And try my best not to repeat the same ones.

I think, like a couple of others have said, that there's an element of blaming myself for not seeing the red flags which helps me to learn a lesson and move on.
I wouldn't want to move on without learning the lesson.

Like any mistake you make... You can stand still and continue to beat yourself over the head with it or you can learn from it and move on

I always blame myself. That’s how I learn the lesson. Otherwise I wouldn’t.

Yes, I see it as my creation...silly, but that's how I see it...

Oh I've had to do just that. I have to move on.

I tend to do a quick analysis of the situation to try to understand why I made the mistake. I don't want to repeat it. Then I move on and don't worry about it.

I can’t say I’m ever glad but geez. If I beat myself up for every time I’ve been slow on the uptake, I’d never see the light again. It’s just part of my nature. I will find something to love and take too long to notice that it has bitten me.

It is not called mistakes but experiences coz all humans' needs do not match just like the size of fingers in the same hand. Basic religion stays the same being humane which is enough to tolerate each other.

I blame myself instantly but after sometime I realise that there is probably something to learn about it so I shrug off.But usually I'm my biggest critic

They always bring some good, some smiles, evoke some positive emotions and reactions. We can focus on what was good and what was learned as we move forward wiser from the experience

I always accept responsibility for my actions, and hope to learn for any future endeavors.
It's pointless and counterproductive to try and shed blame onto others.
It's also cowardly.

I move on. Sometimes even before I have the chance to clear them/it out of my life. I move on because I love experience and will not settle for feeling poorly.

I blame myself and I blame them depending on the case (sometimes one is completely guilty other times the other person or both) .

And continue learning..

It use to bother me, but as you get older, you say Yikes, what was I thinking? And move on. 🤦🤷‍♂️

Hmm i wish i could just shrug and move on. I'd probably blame myself one way or another, this i am quite sure of.

Maybe a bit of both - I'm typically a good judge of character early on.

I don’t make mistakes 😌.

Just another learning experience and keep moving forward

I do cuss at myself for not seeing the situation/people clearly.

Its not a mistake….it’s their loss for being a douche

Take my lesson from it and try not to repeat it as I move on

Ghost and move to live a better life and get better circle.

I usually know in my gut (that I ignore), so I take it as a lesson now.

I don't really do either. I think and analyse 🤔

Meh ... need more coffee

Both .. yes just move on life's lessons...

Both actually

Ugh, that has happened more than once. I blame myself and take it as a lesson learned

I say to myself they must have done this for a long time cause they had me fooled..... At first and time to move on