My neighbor is making me uncomfortable again. How would you handle this?

Yeah. Just get past that mind state. I’m sure it makes him feel good to help you. He’s getting satisfaction out of it

@Freefun74 That is what he says too.

@SW-User kind of sad, don't you think?

@GreensCornbreadYams I have a feeling there is no love in that house. She seems like she is gone way to much. HE seems lonely.

@SW-User @GreensCornbreadYams so what, maybe he is lonely, maybe he is looking for company. Do we always have to suspect an ulterior motive? It's a sad world indeed.

@SW-User Well if he's not trying to 'corner you' on your own and his wife is well aware of who you are it's unlikely to be anything untoward.
I get, totally, the feeling of suspicion. The worry that maybe this is leading up to something......
But that kind of thinking can seriously mess with your mind ! Isolate you from everybody ! Make you fearful of good folk !!

For what it's worth. I live on an estate with maybe 30 houses on it.
Most are elderly folk. Some couples but most singles. And i'm aware that they might view me as 'not one of them'. Lol. Since i'm only early 50's !
But i do favours for folk all the time ! Fix things here and there; get folk their shopping if the weathers bad and they can't get out; Catch the odd spider or mouse if i'm asked.
No thought in my mind other than being useful. Helpful even.
Maybe he feels the same way ☺

@Picklebobble2 ohh, you are so sweet to do that. I did not realizes there were still good men out there. Thank you for letting me know both you and him.

@SW-User My pleasure ☺

Take him some cookies. Or a pie

@drtt943 He said I could bake him a cake. I do not know how to bake cakes.

@SW-User Googlenit miss.
Tellya what, I get my wife to bake a cheese cake, just come to Cali to pick it up.

@Groofydorkgerdo I hope he is just nice.

[@SmilesnotLove] Why not just ask the guy? He seems nice enough.

@Groofydorkgerdo yea

@VeronicaJane He seems to be very nice. He says helping others makes him feel good.

@SmilesOfLove maybe it is as simple as that :-)

@Giana He said I could bake him a cake but I don't bake.

@SW-User You could learn...a cake mix is easy...or buy one

@Giana I am going to buy him a nice one. I told him I can't cook. And when I say that I mean it.

@bigdaddy283 lol, that I never thought of. lol.

@IsaTheBella I have too. He will not take no for an answer. He just drove up in my yard and started unloading wood today.

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout I had to look that up. lol. I do not think he will get that from me. lol

@Spokeskitties75 lol, he goes nothing out of me.