My neighbor is making me uncomfortable again. How would you handle this?

He does things for me and will not let me pay him. He is bringing me firewood and his going to cut up some of my trees that have fallen for firewood. He will not take pay for it. He is a married man and has never once made a pass at me. I tell him to let me pay him and he refuses.

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Freefun74 · 51-55, M Best Comment

I do work for neighbors and friends and refuse pay. It’s my way of contributing to the good. I go to work for money. The rest is spreading love

SW-User

@Freefun74 ohhh, ARe there really men for real like you? Is it possible this neighbor is really like that and not trying to fool me some way?

Freefun74 · 51-55, M

Most people I meet are good. I’d just say thank you.

SW-User

@Freefun74 I do tell him that. But what he is doing makes me uncomfortable.

Freefun74 · 51-55, M

Yeah. Just get past that mind state. I’m sure it makes him feel good to help you. He’s getting satisfaction out of it

SW-User

@Freefun74 That is what he says too.

IsaTheBella · F

@SW-User kind of sad, don't you think?