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Starting college in the fall

Anyone have any tips on how yo have a social life at school
TexChik · F
If the social life is you main concern, Your parents may not be so nice when they see your grades. In school you are going to interact with so many more people. I was a scholarship athlete and student. I was really only concerned with my school and grades. The social stuff happens by default. Going to the home football games is always exciting, then going out dancing (if you have a good fake ID) There are plenty of things there that will distract you and steal your attention away from why you are there. Have fun
TexChik · F
@Chocolatemilk What is a hard science?
Chocolatemilk · 18-21, F
Chem, bio@TexChik
TexChik · F
@Chocolatemilk I loved chem and biology. I have a degree in both. I was accepted to medschool but my mother got sick and I declined my placement to be closer to her.
SW-User
the life you'll have in college depends on your major but most "social" activities translate to drinking, drugs and sleeping around unless you're lucky enough to have good friends, tbh you'd rather focus on academics as most ppl in college are fake and superficial, i definitely regret even caring to be social back then
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Concentrate on your grades and find a field you can be in for the rest of your life. The social life is second, maybe a lower priority. Focus on a busy social life is the main reason college students fail!
Join a club, study group, or meet someone who is taking the same major
It will come gradually. Let your academic pursuits be your first priority. Good luck.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
Just talk to people in your classes and whoever is around you when you feel like talking to them

If you like them, talk to them

There are lots, so don’t be afraid of some not liking you, there’s too many to get a negative reputation just by trying to talk to people
Chickie · F
@th3r0n not everyone is there to make a friend though.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Chickie if they don’t want to they don’t have to, being friendly and talking is an ask not a demand
NickiHijab · F
Join the societies and clubs and attend parties.

The usual tbh.
It will happen naturally. But clubs, extracurriculars and roommates can help.
No, but believe in yourself, and your dreams, its much easier then you may think.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
I would say make friend's and try new stuff
DCarey · 46-50, M
Open up those legs.
Chocolatemilk · 18-21, F
SW-User
Good luck, hope the best for you
SW-User
Smile, and be nice. It will happen :)
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Just be yourself!
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F
Study and concentrate on passing sociallise with the right people that are focusing on graduation not on parties
If I had it to do over again I would’ve focused more on my studies.

 
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