I Am Annoyed

My mom complains nonstop about my dad. Im so tired of hearing it. 90% of the things she says to me is complaining about my dad. 5% is criticizing me in some way. Oh my God I wish she had a job so she could just divorce him but she doesn't want to work. You chose to and continue to choose to be with him, so stop complaining every 5 seconds. Or else get a job and leave him.

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JBird · F

That's the same reason why I don't want to live with my father. He lost his job and he's living off from the money his parents made. He's jealous of my mother being too attractive for him and she was better at studies that he didn't let her have a job. He spend days irritating her calling ugly and complaining his life would be better if he hadn't married her and then beating her if she talked back.

In the end, she divorced him and moved away along with my siblings. He then began to trash talk about them so bad, I left him too.

You just have to ignore them because all those negative vibes will get you eventually.

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JBird · F

@Hush92 I say, tell them to see a therapist rather depending on someone like you who clearly needs a life. They're adults, they should know better than to let you interfere in their marriage.

Get a job, avoid talking about their relationship issues. They can't bother you much if you are committed to something

Hush92 · 26-30, F

@JBird Yes I am looking and applying everywhere I can. My mom has a therapist but I don't think has been talking to her since she switched to telephone sessions due to the pandemic. (My mom doesn't like talking on the phone) My dad would never do anything like that or marriage counseling which is kind of exhausting because he needs it so damn bad.

I just can't wait until I can start my life.

JBird · F

@Hush92 my dad refused therapy too. That's one reason why my mother left him.

I hope you will get a new job. 😇

User41 · 36-40, M

Maybe you need a job to focus on so you could move away

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User41 · 36-40, M

Okay. Crazy thought. Maybe I’m 100% wrong idk.🤷🏻‍♂️

But if your parents have/had a terrible relationship how would you know what a good relationship even looks like?

@Hush92

Hush92 · 26-30, F

@User41 Because I don't live in a bubble and my parents relationship isn't the only relationship I've ever seen? I've been educated in what a healthy relationship is like? My relationship is amazing and I couldn't be happier with it. I actually really enjoy spending time with my boyfriend and he's not controlling like my dad.

User41 · 36-40, M

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Okay well that’s good

Tbh I completely forgot where I was going with this...lol

But I’m happy to hear that @Hush92

Montanaman · M

😔🤗🤗💞🤗

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