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I've been seeing this therapist who seems trustworthy then somebody else suggested another... who is supposedly great and more especialized w/my case

I reached out to the 2nd one after my first appointment with the first one. So now the 2nd one is waiting to confirm the appointment with her... but Im getting a bit comfortable with the first. (We only had 2 appointments too far). Idk what should I do. I never had many choices about something this delicate. I've always had bad experiences with them. I don't know what to think. I just want to get better.
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Massageman · 70-79, M
My wife has been a counselor for nearly 20 years, and I have been a Massage Therapist for over 30. Believe it or not, we DO try to match clients up with the professionals we believe can help them the most with their issues. My wife has sacrificed many clients just to get them to someone who seems more in line with the client's needs. As for massage, I suggest that (potential) clients check all their sources- on-line, phone book (what's that?), friends, etc- and gather 6-7 therapists that sound good and who are willing to have a conversation of at least three minutes (yes, it's one of my measures for professionals I hire in ANY facet of life, from medical to plumbers.). Then, call each and ask them each the same questions from a standardized list that you create. If you have a condition, "have they worked with xyz condition?", and so on. Then, rank them in order, and get a session from each of the two or three top ones, and go from there. At one point, I had three massage therapists- one was one of my instructors who did "serious" on me, one was particularly good at stretching and recovering me from overwork, and the third was great at putting my mind into "la-la-land". So, use whatever "yardstick" of measurement that you think you need to use to find the best therapist- of any type- for your needs. You are the only "you", and you deserve to get the service you deem the best for your needs. Personal recommendations has repeatedly come in at the top of people I hire, while those mailbox coupon "Val-packs" or whatever, always come in last for me. I wish you well on your hunt for the help you need.
Elisbch · M
I would see the first one only for now. It's going to take you a while to figure out exactly if this therapist is the right one for you unless there's blazing signs that it's just not a good fit. If there aren't a bunch of red flags stay there. The second therapist will always be there if the first doesn't work out but if you go to the second right away you may not be able to go back to the first. (imho).
You may also have insurance to contend with which I have no idea how that will affect anything.
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
It's good you're making progress. My experience about doctors referring patients is more about sending "business" to their golfing buddies.
I don't know how insurance might figure into this, but I'd be surprised if they'd pay for two therapists at the same time.
Trying a few is good idea.
One has to "click" with their therapist for it to work well.
@OogieBoogie even 2 at the same time? Sounds counterproductive??
@AoNoSora does it matter if they are at the same time or not.

Its the connection that matters not the timing🤷‍♀
Try both and see who you have more of a connection with.
YoMomma ·
If you are happy with your current one i don't see any reason to switch
itsok · 31-35, F
Can you continue with both for now, until you’ve made up your mind?
dale74 · M
Do you have commitment issues

 
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