Pressure to share

So Joel and I have been going to a support group for eating disorder. It's only our 3 meeting with the group but he's already shared twice.

We get a email about it each week talking about who's turn it is to bring snacks and drinks stuff like that but in the end it says and let's hope one of our newest members will share his story with us.

I read that and got instant anxiety. Wow way to call me out in the email. I know everyone will know they are talking about me.

Now I feel like I have to share and I just don't think I'm ready to do that. And now I'm going to be freaking out about it all day until we go!!

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Friendlyperson · 26-30, F

Your authenticity in your posts always amazes me. You sound like a genuine person. I am sure if share how uncomfortable you still are they will understand... but also it doesn't hurt to push yourself a little. Trust your rythm, you are there to feel free and not pressured.

Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M

@Friendlyperson thank you so much! I just know I'm not ready and if I try I'm going to fight hard to control my tics and that makes for a bad evening.

Friendlyperson · 26-30, F

@Cigarguy101 Well then don't share. And say loudly that you are not ready to say anything and you will when you are ready.

You will be accepted. So don't force yourself to do anything you can't. You should be proud of yourself for taking these much steps to heal.