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Are you open enough to admit how many people you've sexted with on SW? 👀

I mean [i]actual[/i] sexting not just flirting. No names of course 😂 but many of us have done it... Even the ones you thought were innocent 😶

I'm kinda curious if I'm a ho or not 😅 I think I'm at 10 rn 🤔 but idk if that's okay or bad lol

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Scribbles · 36-40, F

There was one guy on here that lived in Louisiana that I flirted with back and forth at one time when I was single. Some really hot messages, really steamy stuff that got me going each time , but no sexting of nudes. I liked him as a person too.

Then after some dating, I eventually got serious with the person who became my husband. I wasn't single anymore. And I told him that my dating someone turned into a relationship, and I couldn't do the hot messaging anymore. And that as much as I liked him, and the steamy exchanges we wrote each other...I was really sorry but I made a choice to be in a relationship with the person I had been dating... and I wished him well in finding love. But I didn't want to lead him on, or be dishonest to the person I had chosen to be in a relationship with either. I basically friendzoned him. :/

It was a bit awkward, and we just exchanged mostly a few friendly messages now and then to keep up on how each other was doing-like how he was doing with helping with volunteer animal rescue that he did. After about a year of being just friends, He sent me a goodbye message one day, and wished me lots of happiness and blocked me. I felt really bad, because I think I broke his heart at the time. I felt bad, because I really really liked him, just not as much as the person I was dating. And I chose them. And life worked out that way. Maybe if I'd never met my husband, things would be different? We had made plans to meet up in New Orleans at one point. But I backed out. I couldn't do it after deciding to get serious with my boyfriend. idk. It just seemed like such a bad idea. And up to that point, I think he held out hope that I might break up with my then boyfriend.

I have no idea if he's still on here or not. But I hope he's doing really really well. I hope he's fantastic and has a girlfriend or wife and doesn't think of me anymore. It was a long time ago now. idk.

Also I was an idiot.

PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

I had a similar experience Scribbles...I wonder sometimes if she is well and doing alright. I miss her sometimes as it was more than sexting

Scribbles · 36-40, F

@PTCdresser57 I'm sorry 😞

CestManan · 46-50, F

I know three for sure and maybe four? Not many.
I just can't because I start making jokes or laughing.

One of them was tugging his tweeter on webcam and I said - "Are you whacking your wang in my honor?" and he was like "Oh yes Leggs, you are so beautiful."
I had to shut off the mic as I proceeded to crack up laughing.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@CestManan idk how I missed this comment but lmfao 😂 "whacking your wang in my honor" sounds hilarious 🤣

deadteddy · 26-30, F

Does fake sexting count?

calicuz · 51-55, M

@deadteddy

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@deadteddy yes if it was sexual 😅👀

southerngent · M

@deadteddy would that be fexting? 🤔

calicuz · 51-55, M

If I even attempted that, it would have been way back in the EP days, and even then I'm sure it was a total failure. 😅

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@calicuz I think I only had a few back in the EP days.. I was a lot younger lol.

Did you attempt tho? 👀

calicuz · 51-55, M

@ChiefWalksWith40oz

I probably did, and judging by my lack of current interest in it, it must not have gone well. 🤦‍♂️

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@calicuz try again! 😁

SW-User

I don't remember all of them tbh. I'll guess like... 10.

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JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@SW-User I imagine the same.

SW-User

@ChiefWalksWith40oz I've been here a long ass time lol.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@SW-User same... Except technically I took a 5 year break 😅

SW-User

Everyone be like 👀🤐

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@SW-User people be watching but not wanting to talk 😂 waaack

SailorMarz · F

I regret like 2 of them. Both being male

One had no game and didn't know how to sext, he just looked attractive. Which didn't matter to me anyway cause i'm pretty head over heels for girls.

And the other has a big mouth lmao

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ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@SailorMarz damn they don't even sound like good experiences 😅 I'm sorry

..wait so if both were guys does that mean I have a chance? 👀

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

@SailorMarz as a male, I can only say ouch. But as a person who is also attracted to women and not men, I can totally understand 😅

SailorMarz · F

@ViciDraco i'm glad you get it 🌹

ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F

i used to be even more of a whore than i am now if u can believe it…

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@ginnyfromtheblock that's no biggie 😌 ...so how many? 👀

MasterLee · 56-60, M

Zero

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@MasterLee 👀

Reject · 26-30, M

I can’t sext to save my life. So I can’t say I ever have successfully, but there was two attempts with women who were interested a long time ago.

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ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@LemonWorld I might rap fr lol don't play w me son 😤

LemonWorld · 36-40, F

@ChiefWalksWith40oz I'm sick right now so once i get better 🍒🤛🏽

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@LemonWorld lemme know dawg

Lostpoet · M

2 one said she cut herself soon after becaused i sexted with someone else. I keep my sexting to pornhub for now on.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@Lostpoet aw, don't give up on sexting just because your first one was a psychopath 🥺

But lmao are you one of those who leaves pornhub comments? Those are hilarious 😅

stound

like 3 or 4, but thats over years. I mostly don't talk to anyone anymore

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@stound don't talk to anyone? 🥺 But that's sad

stound

@ChiefWalksWith40oz meh. Nothing sad or not, but thinking makes it so.

Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F

@stound that's a good enough count

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

1, let's say that my options are pretty limited and I suck at sexting anyway. 😂

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@CrazyMusicLover why are your options limited? 👀

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@ChiefWalksWith40oz 🤐😆

UpForItNow · 22-25, F

Shown my cock to about 300 women.

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UpForItNow · 22-25, F

@LordShadowfire And many gave implicit invitation through their forums.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@UpForItNow you sure they were all women? 😶 & Was there consent at least? 😅

OogieBoogie · F

@UpForItNow you realise that's flashing not sexting right ?😂

SW-User

Mm.
5. Or 6. But with pics and stuff 3... I have like levels of it, but won't increase, this year only 1 😁

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@SW-User oh nice 😅 how do I become next tho? 😶

Nadie

Zero. I can't believe people trust each other on this site.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@Nadie aw 😔 okay how many on FetLife then?

FR0Z3NY0GURT · F

To all those whom I have sexted with, just comment down below. 😅

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@FR0Z3NY0GURT 👀

minxy · 46-50, F

Zero.
I wouldn't give my phone number to anyone on this site.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@minxy can I have your number? 😌

LemonWorld · 36-40, F

None 😇

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ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@LemonWorld 😏

LemonWorld · 36-40, F

@ChiefWalksWith40oz honestly idk i only remember 4

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@LemonWorld aw that's a sweet number 😌

SooperSarah

Part of me wants to go back through my inbox out of curiosity, but I know it's not worth the effort for the low yield.

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ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@SooperSarah I'ma guess 4 😶

SooperSarah

@ChiefWalksWith40oz that's probably pretty close. Four in like seven years is still better than my offline sex life lol

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@SooperSarah aw 🥺 but you deserve to bang all the time

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Yes.

Amount: 0

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@Queendragonfly you barely got rid of your "new" badge 😌 give it time

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@ChiefWalksWith40oz I don't come here for sexting. So it will remain on 0 🫸

curiouslilone · 22-25, F

lots.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@curiouslilone 😏

LilPrincess · 41-45, F

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@LilPrincess 👀👂

Justenjoyit · 56-60, M

@LilPrincess [image]

LilPrincess · 41-45, F

@Justenjoyit i really did

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

...are we counting people who aren't here anymore?

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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@ChiefWalksWith40oz 🤐🤫

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

...errr was that a proposition? 😳🥴😆

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@Starcrossed maybe kinda 😶😏😂

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

I've sexted with more than 20 others on SW....but not sure of the exact number.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@DragonFruit more than 20 huh? Not bad lol. How long have you been here though?

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

@ChiefWalksWith40oz Over 6 years...since early 2017.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@DragonFruit nice, so 20 over a 6 year soan. Not bad

ElRengo · 70-79, M

No one,
Not IMO a merit and neither a bad thing by itself.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@ElRengo i pray you sext someone soon 🙏 it's fun

ElRengo · 70-79, M

@ChiefWalksWith40oz
Thank you for your kind wishes.
Maybe I should make it a bit more clear.
What I´ve said answering your question is that I had no sexting at SW.
And in fact with no one since some years ago.
But I had the experience earlier.
In fact that´s part how began my last important relationship.
For both our surprise it evolved to become a bold loving one in all the imaginable meanings of it.
And lasted for years till I lost her.
So I know it MAY be a good thing even more than a fun one.
Just not now foe me.

Turtlepower · 36-40, M

More than 0 less than everyone. 😂

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Turtlepower · 36-40, M

@ChiefWalksWith40oz 😂 I'm pretty sure you and I have overlap. I was going through my message history and it was too tedious lol

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@Turtlepower damn.. sounds like a lot 👀

Turtlepower · 36-40, M

@ChiefWalksWith40oz I've been here on this account for 5 years or so and talked with a lot of people or received random messages. I did find one really old one with several hundred messages and was like who was this lol

ineedadrink · 51-55, M

None on SW, I dry women up.😁

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@ineedadrink dry, you say? 🥺

ineedadrink · 51-55, M

@ChiefWalksWith40oz Eh, I don't pretend to have any type of game.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@ineedadrink well me either 😅 I have no game yet things still happen somehow 🤷 it ain't about game it's about being real & at least you're honest with yourself so you got that 👌

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I don’t even know, I will guess 69?

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@iamonfire696 nice 😏

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@ChiefWalksWith40oz all 69 thought so 💅🏼

funxxx707 · 51-55, M

No one wanted to talk like that with me on here

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@funxxx707 damn 🥺

Notladylike

You sir are a ho…😂

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@Notladylike I'm a good noodle 😭

Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@Nevaeh0081 aw 🥺

SnailTeeth · 36-40

I don't find having the same conversations about the same shit to be stimulating, nvm doing it over a lifetime. Sexting was fine when I was a kid, but that's because I couldn't have actual sex.

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

Does it include people I did that with back on ep b4 sw? They are also on here

DrWatson · 70-79, M

I am open enough to divulge that.

The number is 0, and it will stay 0.

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

2 on EP, but none on SW.

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ViciDraco · 36-40, M

@ChiefWalksWith40oz Haha, not expecting many in the time ahead. I'm not particularly popular in that way around these parts, nor am I bold enough to pursue.