I am going all nuts

Meet him in a public place..

If he entices you to get in his white van with candy, run.

go to a place to often go to,like a coffee house, bring a freind

As long as your gut tells you it's okay, go and meet him. Once you get a feel for him, you can decide if you want to go further.

how long have you been talking? go somewhere public and safe if you do go

It sounds to me like you may be having thoughts that you’ve yet to communicate?

There’s nothing wrong with meeting someone. But as others have said:
Public place with lots of people around.

Worst case you don’t vibe and you make a polite exit.
Best case, you find what you’re looking for.


It’s probably easy for a nice guy that likes literature and poetry to come off as gay or bisexual at times, but there’s no way to know for sure unless you actually ask. Or at least that’s my opinion from what you described.

Either way, I wish you luck and a nice interaction. Stay safe.

Peace

Meet in a public place, I hope. A coffee shop or something. Sounds like you guys might have enough shared interests for a nice friendship. It sounds like you are looking for more romance/sex/realtionship type things.
What makes you conclude that he's bi?
I wonder what the book will be about...

A man can love art and poetry without loving other men.

I don't see why not.

Follow your heart but use your brain & don’t overthink think it.

You already have decided to go. Don't you?
Only one thing is bothering you. Otherwise you are interested.

Why not? Are you afraid for some reason. Are you thinking about an Uma Thurma movie, wasn't SHE the killer.

Your instinct is correct in that there is no point. LOTS of gay/bi guys are sweet, but it can't go any further. Unless you want to double your risk of some very nasty STD's.

At the minimum you might gain a new friend or if the encounter... And you just never know...