why is body count such a big thing nowadays?

To me I've never really thought about 'body count' with dating and relationships. I can't do sex for the sake of sex and nothing else.

Mine is under 5 and I'm 57. It will never reach 10. My average for sex is less than thrice a year averaged over my adult life to date


Re my 1st ex I have no idea. Re my second ex I have no idea.

But it has to be presumed that as we get older when we link up with people there's going to be an incremental increase in 'body count' for both people just based on stats and age.

There doesn't seem to be much validated research done on body count for 50 y/o men and women vs say 40 y/o 30 y/o 20 y/o.

Some women are obcessed with using it as a 'badge of honour' when being social esp with other women. I don't know of any other men who brag about it for them but I'm not really social and don't have friends so that kind of topic would never get mentioned.

Is that in your age group. Doesn't seem like that big a deal to me ...come to think of it when I was your age I would have had a fear of not being as good as some others.

It's a thing. Just won't be as important later to a lot of guys

Women lose emotional connection, the more Partners they have.
You can argue with me all you want.But the chances of divorce, if you've slept with more than five people is closer to 75% and increases more, the larger your body count.
The 6 studies that I've seen so that if a woman has slept with more than a 100 men
Her chances of staying married to her first husband is less than three percent.

Good question. It was never an issue for us. My count was zero and hers was "I don't know."

If a woman (or a man) was to start making a big issue about body count like it'a a bragging point when on dates that's the time to get up and walk away in my view.

It is archaic and unfair for different standard. Many say too few and some say too many.

Are u one

It is?

I'd rather a lady with a very high body count

Men believe that a woman with high body count will have lost the ability to form strong long term pair bonding with new men..

So men avoid woman with High body counts when they are looking for a woman to be their long term marriage type relationship..

One could have a low body count but be having aex five times a night for years.

It really isn't outside of America (or maybe the Anglosphere)

Because there’s too many run arounds these days 😏

Incel podcasts made it an issue.

seems like a teenager thing

they are saps and dump them, i like a big body count, means they might be goo din bed haha

Only guys with little dicks care about body count. It's an insecurity thing

Maybe after 60 years of the sexual revolution people start to see flaws in it

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