why is body count such a big thing nowadays?

I swear it didn’t use to be a thing that was ever spoke about or anybody else’s business. why is everyone always going on about body count? you get really ran through men that say they want a girl with a low body count because “why would i pay for something she gave others for free” signifying they only wanna put effort into a relationship for sex and not emotional connection. maybe it’s from insecurity that they feel they won’t be able to compare to other guys? i feel like “gave away for free” is such a weird way to put it as well considering the woman are aloud to enjoy sex too. i understand virgins wanting other virgins but that’s it

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dale74 · M

Women lose emotional connection, the more Partners they have.
You can argue with me all you want.But the chances of divorce, if you've slept with more than five people is closer to 75% and increases more, the larger your body count.
The 6 studies that I've seen so that if a woman has slept with more than a 100 men
Her chances of staying married to her first husband is less than three percent.

Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F

@dale74 bro really crunched the numbers. yeah some studies do show a correlation between having more past partners and higher divorce rates, but it’s not a simple cause and effect thing. lots of other thing come into play it’s not really about losing emotional connection. a body count of 100 is crazy though i get why people care about that cause it says a lot about their character, but can’t really generalise everyone with a big body count to be the same. my best friend has a big body count from letting people use her but she just loves people too deeply.

Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F

@dale74 and the reason i posted this post is because i always see videos about body count and men commenting saying that even 2 is too high and 6 is too high n i don’t see how that’s a big deal

dale74 · M

@Katiecunn12 those aren't my numbers.Those are the numbers from a study done at stanford cornell university.I think harvard did a study, and i'm not sure who the other three studies were.But you can just google, it pulls up the studies.But you want to look for a synopsis of all the studies combined or multiple studies that way you can see a comparison between all the studies.Because no study is perfect.

But it could also explain why depression in women, thirty five and over has skyrocketed in the last thirty to forty years ever since the encouragement of corporate life.Over family life.

dale74 · M

@Katiecunn12 i am not to worried about a woman's bc but if it is more than two per year for life that is high to me because it tells me there has not been many stable long term relationships or a bad hoe faze

Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F

@dale74 yea true

dale74 · M

@Katiecunn12 but then again, I'm also the types that's still friends with a lot of my exes, at least the ones I keep in touch with
Not like the ones i've met in college.But any that I dated for more than six months?I can pretty much call them up and they'll come over if i'm warning, it's just, there's reasons.I broke up with them, or they broke up with me