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Anyone who's relatively calm on a date

In what ways help you stay calm in the short term?
(For example, to help Not overthinking about their thoughts of you)

What helps you stay calm when considering going forward, on more dates/relationship?
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Cigarguy · M Best Comment
Pick a place that you are comfortable going to. Keep it lite and fun. Make sure you have a way to leave on your own if things aren't going the way you want. There is no need to try and impress the person if it's going to cause you stress and anxiety. Be yourself and if they don't like that then you know they aren't the person you want to date again
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Cigarguy Thank you friend 🌻
Cigarguy · M
@Coralmist thank you for the best comment

Younameit · F
I don’t go on dates anymore but Getting tipsy before leaving the house could help 🤣
Northwest · M
@Younameit
Getting tipsy before leaving the house could help

Or you might end up doing something you don't want to do, or ready to do.
Cigarguy · M
@Younameit this is a horrible idea.
Younameit · F
@Cigarguy You may be right!
romell · 51-55, M
I come for happiness if it makes me stressed why am I here??
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@romell How can you be confident with many issues (that could be a red flag in your date's eyes)?
romell · 51-55, M
@Coralmist don't think what he may think ..just go with the flow
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@romell Thanks 🍀
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
I don't now that anything keeps me from overthinking things.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Just focusing on the person.
Musicman · 61-69, M
I haven't dated in 35 years, but when I did I just enjoyed evening. On a date only one of two things is going to happen. 1. Everyone has a good time and you see each other again. 2. You don't get along and you are never going out again. It's almost like flipping a coin and heads you win and tails you lose. Never worry about impressing anyone on the first date or being good enough. I mean heck, are they good enough for you? If you have a good time and like the person then see them again.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Musicman I really appreciate your support, thank you. 🪻 Now to find the mystery guy lol.
Musicman · 61-69, M
@Coralmist I am truly wishing you all the best ☺💝💝💝
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Musicman Thank you for your kindness 🌷
Northwest · M
You should remember these 3 things:

1. Don't overthink it.

2. Don't overthink it.

3. Don't overthink it.
Alisha233 · 31-35, F
Maybe some liquid courage prior being social. Hehehe
romell · 51-55, M
@Alisha233 liquid courage could open legs faster than intended too
Banksy83 · 41-45, M
Go line dancing 💃
[media=https://youtu.be/IH9zMnHnDhU?si=DR0fMPfsi4Ux1C1m]
Just dance Honey
Matt85 · 36-40, M

 
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