do you flirt by teasing them, complimenting them, or just staring at their mouth too long? Or if you're me, stumble over every word and just say weird things?
Flirting and teasing are fun, but I think most people just take that as joking around and having fun. I think the first step to letting someone know you actually like them is to take some sort of concrete step. Would you like to get lunch sometime? Or a coffee? That sort of thing.
@DunningKruger you're right That's the only way I know someone has ulterior plans for me....I'm aloof and oblivious to other people flirting with me I need the obvious direction
depends on what age i was...when i was in elementary school i'd gently tug on a pony tail but that usually ended up me getting slapped. in junior high i'd try and act like a jackass in class and try to make them laugh...no luck then....in high school getting them high seemed to work....sometimes. now in adulthood i try and shut my mouth because sometimes silence is golden