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Why are men okay dating bisexual women,but most straight women are not okay with dating a bisexual man?

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HumanEarth · F Best Comment
Women are afraid of the man leaving them for another man and most have a guy on guy image stuck in their head it grosses them out

Men idea is the hopes is having a FMF threesome and most woman on woman it turns them on.

I think that covers it.
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@WowwGirl got me 🤣 lmao
HumanEarth · F
Thank you my friend for the

WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@HumanEarth anytime

Punxi · F
I'll never rain on anyone's personal choice parade.

Personally raised in a more traditional value forward house hold . I've never entertained the popular " I'm bi" mentality many women entertain in light of knowing men like it 99% of the time.

I never kissed a girl...🎵

On the flip side then I'd never develop the taste for sugar in a man's tank.
Punxi · F
@Guardian Just an expression.
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Guardian seamen buddy
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It's actually a very long story. Here's the short version.

In ancient times, there was no sexual orientation. Sex was something a man did, and it was part of how men would dominate women and other weaker men. So while there was no homophobia, there was bigotry against men who bottomed because they were seen as weak and feminine. Meanwhile, people didn't even believe two women having sex actually was real sex, because for it to be sex a man had to be dominating someone with his schwanz.

As western society transitioned from Pagan to Christian, homosexuality became seen as wrong, but this mindset of ancient times didn't really go away. People still linked certain positions within sex as being wrong for a man because it made him feminine. The result was that society saw homosexuality as bad, but really just for men. Even in totalitarian countries where gay people were killed, it was mostly just gay men that were targeted. This is also why if a woman pegs a man, it's seen as gay, even though there's no same-gender sex going on.

And that brings us to where we are now. Even a lot of progressive people who support gay rights still see something wrong with men being gay. That's why women are less likely to date bi men.
@Torsten It was absolutely accepted in Pagan Europe. If you have evidence of the contrary, feel free to present it.
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WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Torsten that's great message him next time. I ask nicely. I don't care to see it. Thank you
I'd date a bi woman, but NOT a bi man! How about you?
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Guardian wouldn't dating a bisexual make you a bisexual? No I wouldn't myself ill admit it
bookerdana · M
Most bi-sexual women I've known were more SAPIO-sexual or curious..there also may be a fear of HIV🤷‍♂
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Thrust preference?
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Thrust · 56-60, M
@WowwGirl

My preference? Fun loving and somewhat sports oriented gals. The all around tom boy
Wolffy · 56-60, M
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
It might have its roots in claim that biologically men have a compulsion to spread their seed, whereas women prefer a dedicated partner. I mean, this form eons of evolution, even if it’s not a convenient belief today
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@DownTheStreet I thought about that too 👍 t u
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Is that true?
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@samueltyler2 90% or more of women said no way they would not date a bisexual.
Very true as you see nobody is saying it's not.
The dating scene is much more .. complicated .. than the last time I was out there 🙄
@WowwGirl NGL .. some of this stuff today has me thinking I'm gonna pass on it.
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@BrandNewMan it's a jungle out there
@WowwGirl Lol .. and after what I'm coming out of .. more drama is not high on my list ;-)
Then maybe I should call myself gender fluid or something cuz I'm so not one of those guys!
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
pdockal · 56-60, M
Men want FFM
women don't want that type of competition
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@pdockal good because I can't show you sadly
pdockal · 56-60, M
@WowwGirl

Why can't you ?????
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@pdockal because when I used to show my face I got stalked. Not looking to relive that
Torsten · 36-40, M
Probably cause the majority of people find it to be disgusting
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Torsten there's that view
Torsten · 36-40, M
@WowwGirl its the truth though. Lesbians are more accepted cause a lot of men have fantasties over them.
Straight women seeminglg dont have fantasies over men having sex with other men.
Majority of people are repulsed by it instead
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WowwGirl · 36-40, F
You asked or I wouldn't.
@WowwGirl confused lol
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Nunlover 😎 cool

 
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