separatetheheart · 31-35, M
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@separatetheheart As much as i hate being forever alone and rejected idk what else to do
masterofyou · 70-79, M
I would be interested and actually don't care how good or bad you look compared to any pictures... If you were genuinely interested in meeting you will show up and i would too....
I think sometimes we are our worst enemy when meeting people that we have been friends with online....
I think sometimes we are our worst enemy when meeting people that we have been friends with online....
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
A few years ago i was on a dating site. I ended up chatting with this girl for quite a while..she send me.pictures of her alot. We decided to meet. She was nothing like the pictures she sent me neither. It was her in the pics but she did something to them. Man thst chic was so much fun to be around. We got together. She lied to me though. I found out a year later thst she is hooked on Meth. She drank every single day also. I swear . She was never drunk and acting stupid. She was awesome. Dont cut yourself down. You are good enough..im sure some man would fall for you. Give it a chance. Just be your selve. This girl was very big also. Its the heart that we look at. I miss her still. We had so many good times together
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Pherick · 41-45, M
@IAmNothing Lets see.
1. I met a girl who wanted to double date with her sister and her bf. Totally fine, I get meeting a guy off of online can be scary. Date was nice, but she was so quiet, barely said anything. Her sister and BF and I chatted, we dragged her into it, but barely got any words out of her. After the date, I figured that was it, she wasn't into me, but she was chatty as all hell online again, and she had a great time, we went out more, but she always was so shy in person.
2. Met a lady who I played a game with online (way back in the early 2000s) and we decided to go out. I got to her place, she opened the door, with just her head in the opening, we said Hi, and she opened the door, I walked in, and she shut door. She was topless. Never acted like it was problem, never really said anything about it, we ordered takeout, watched TV the whole time she was topless. That was an odd date.
1. I met a girl who wanted to double date with her sister and her bf. Totally fine, I get meeting a guy off of online can be scary. Date was nice, but she was so quiet, barely said anything. Her sister and BF and I chatted, we dragged her into it, but barely got any words out of her. After the date, I figured that was it, she wasn't into me, but she was chatty as all hell online again, and she had a great time, we went out more, but she always was so shy in person.
2. Met a lady who I played a game with online (way back in the early 2000s) and we decided to go out. I got to her place, she opened the door, with just her head in the opening, we said Hi, and she opened the door, I walked in, and she shut door. She was topless. Never acted like it was problem, never really said anything about it, we ordered takeout, watched TV the whole time she was topless. That was an odd date.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Pherick First one sounds weird more like a friend material than dating material. The second one I would probably leave because of the weirdness of it all.
Pherick · 41-45, M
@IAmNothing I figured she did want to be friends, but we went out a few more times, it was odd. She was so sweet, but so odd.
Though I guess #2 was pretty odd in her own way, I think that was the only time I ever saw her :)
Though I guess #2 was pretty odd in her own way, I think that was the only time I ever saw her :)
YoMomma · 41-45
It doesn't have to be that way.. some people like large people just fine..
YoMomma · 41-45
@IAmNothing maybe you need a different type of workout
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@YoMomma Maybe or it could be genetics. Both my parents gain muscle easily.
YoMomma · 41-45
@IAmNothing oh 🙂
Manofoz · 61-69, M
The only fear id have is getting mugged or things like that. I dont have a problem meeting any woman. The outcome could be very pleasurable
OogieBoogie · F
Sometimes you just have to jump in both feet first and face up your fear.
More often than not its never as bad as you imagine its going to be.
Fearing the fear of something, more than fearing the something itself is queer little monster - the more we feed it, the bigger its teeth become.
More often than not its never as bad as you imagine its going to be.
Fearing the fear of something, more than fearing the something itself is queer little monster - the more we feed it, the bigger its teeth become.
OogieBoogie · F
@IAmNothing You have nothing to lose tho:
- If you do go, and off chance it doesnt work out, you might feel bad.....or might not. It might be mutual.
- if you dont go, you'll definitely make them feel bad, and then youll feel bad.
What are you winning by not going?
Some false sense of security from staying isolated?
- If you do go, and off chance it doesnt work out, you might feel bad.....or might not. It might be mutual.
- if you dont go, you'll definitely make them feel bad, and then youll feel bad.
What are you winning by not going?
Some false sense of security from staying isolated?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@OogieBoogie I might just tell them it's not you it's me I'm too anxious and good luck in the future.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@IAmNothing If you hide from rejection what you want cannot possibly happen. You need to do the opposite. Face rejection and expect it. Just don't force it because of your fear. I can't count the number of times I tried something new and disappointed myself with no ones help. It's nothing to admit your nervous to someone you're first meeting. Stop over analyzing if they have seen your pictures. Give yourself a chance and I'm going to repeat again. Get rid of that profile pic and give yourself a chance. Keep meeting those that want to meet you. Let your inner personality represent you.
You large and in charge?
@IAmNothing so they know you are fat! Just go have some fun
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Nunlover Yeah but my height masks it better in photos than in real life. I look larger in person.
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IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@jshm2 how can you be sure?