Is a guy even interested in you when he never puts the effort to message you first?
I'm playing with fire 🤌
31-35, F
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SeaGlass · F
I'm sorry it's hard, but if you're afraid to let go of the current pattern, it's prob because you already know @Lifeinpieces 🫂
So true! @SUPERVlXEN
Ty, @OlderSometimesWiser 🙂
So true! @SUPERVlXEN
Ty, @OlderSometimesWiser 🙂
Amur8711 · 31-35, M
@SUPERVlXEN How many days should you give her to have chance to message first before getting your answer?
Matt85 · 36-40, M
it's okay to be chill
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Lifeinpieces · 31-35, F
@luckranger71 he knows i love him and he says he loves me too but he's always occupied with other things
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
@Lifeinpieces I'm sorry you're going through this. Actions speak louder than words. I wouldn't believe what he says. Give him the gift of missing you by never reaching out to him from this point forward.
Lifeinpieces · 31-35, F
@luckranger71 maybe i made myself to available, it's a shame, i do love him but i have said before i need to see some effort i can't be the only one moving
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
If he gets together for sex every few days and then is gone again, you know the answer. It sounds awful but he may even be thinking about a different person when he does it with you.
Put a chastity belt on him for say, 6 months, and you hold the key, then see if there is a difference in his attitude.
Put a chastity belt on him for say, 6 months, and you hold the key, then see if there is a difference in his attitude.
Lifeinpieces · 31-35, F
@JamesBugman you're just cruel 🤣
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
@Lifeinpieces True love only comes with good food, some flowers and a squirt. :)
Lifeinpieces · 31-35, F
@JamesBugman wow
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
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DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
Lifeinpieces · 31-35, F
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@Lifeinpieces
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ABCDEF7 · M
Yes, he can be, and you are playing with fire. You can either get burnt, or may feel the comforting warmth. You have to understand him more, and might have to push hard to get him.
ABCDEF7 · M
@Lifeinpieces It's not about making it hard. As it is usually difficult for men to understand women. It works the other way too.
Lifeinpieces · 31-35, F
@ABCDEF7 men never grow up huh
ABCDEF7 · M
@Lifeinpieces Some people grow at different frequencies, be it men or women.
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
Not really and also the same could be said for females too I will reach out to females a few times but if they do not message me back after a couple times I don't bother anymore I do not Chase what does not want to be caught it is a waste of time effort resources and mentality
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
This is why I don't care for dating anymore... 🙄
apparently, love & affection these days is relegated to whomever can send the most text messages...
apparently, love & affection these days is relegated to whomever can send the most text messages...
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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
What's the backstory? Are you and him dating, or just friends, or something else?
If you're actually dating, two way communication is vital.
If you're actually dating, two way communication is vital.
Lifeinpieces · 31-35, F
@zonavar68 kind of dating, we haven't met yet but he knows i want something long-term but i get he's a bit difficult because he's never been in a relationship for a long time
Justafantasy · M
Seriously that's such a 2 way street. If one person only starts the conversation either way what does it tell the other person?
JestAJester · 31-35, M
I rarely do myself anymoee because 9 times out of 10 women dont respond or cant hold a conversation
MrGomco · 36-40, M
Yes, boys these days don't go around begging like they used to.
MrGomco · 36-40, M
@Lifeinpieces may be he is a chad.
496sbc · 36-40, M
if im interested in. a gal i will msg her first but i also like when she msgs me. to
I'm just happy that I'm too seasoned to have to endure this kind of nonsense anymore.
LifeIsShort · M
Are yoh interested in him?
Or
You're interested in him being interested in you.
Or
You're interested in him being interested in you.
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
Is he engaged when talking with you, does he make plans?
looking4thesun · M
Have you ever put in an effort to message him?
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Yes.
Nanori · F
No
InHeaven · F
No
Iwillwait · M
🔥
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Why dont women message first?
Lifeinpieces · 31-35, F
@Justenjoyit uuh I'm doing it that's the whole point?? 🤣
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@Lifeinpieces So you messaged him first and he did not reply?
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
You are wasting your time not playing with fire.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Unless he wants to just hookup no.
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