campfireandstars · 41-45, M
you're thinking too much stop stressing. You will stress out and cancel. Go for a walk
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@campfireandstars I've been talking to him since 7th June...
All moved very quickly and was all very exciting.
Our first meeting was July 2nd...
Which was just a walk In the park.
But we would text regularly from am to pm.
Breaks as he works full time and I don't.
But yea on and off through the day.
All moved very quickly and was all very exciting.
Our first meeting was July 2nd...
Which was just a walk In the park.
But we would text regularly from am to pm.
Breaks as he works full time and I don't.
But yea on and off through the day.
campfireandstars · 41-45, M
@Mellowgirlso, far it's only a lack of contact from the date. this isn't a bad thing, but it could be something. Fast moving or quickly isn't a red flag onto itself. my suggestion is also to do a background check as to public records and or criminal. just look at my only post i have on here. i just started here last night.
lakshsony · 31-35, F
@campfireandstars you got a point there! instead of sitting there and stressing much...you should just go out and get some fresh air. that can help you with your question. or engage yourself with more communication
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Don't let your insecurities take hold hun
Im sure no matter itll be absolutely fine
Ive been there with inviting people over, esp people i respect. But thats my own insecurity. It doesn't make them judgemental hun and i also need to know that
We haven't decorated for 8 years but its fine. Its clean lol
Im sure no matter itll be absolutely fine
Ive been there with inviting people over, esp people i respect. But thats my own insecurity. It doesn't make them judgemental hun and i also need to know that
We haven't decorated for 8 years but its fine. Its clean lol
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Gangstress I guess I just want to make a good impression. When people haven't been kind it doesn't make it easy to open up my safe space to another.
My home is import to me, it's saved me from a lot
My home is import to me, it's saved me from a lot
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@AndrewF and in your 30's?
IndianaJoes · M
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@IndianaJoes Well I kinda killed myself washing my carpets, and cleaning every last bit of nook and cranny.
Which was good as it paid off he said my home was cosy.
And he felt comfortable.
It's not perfect but it does the job.
Which was good as it paid off he said my home was cosy.
And he felt comfortable.
It's not perfect but it does the job.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Threepio no he may not initially but he might after
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@exchrist I do but when you live somewhere for a while you can become a bit blind. Also I've not decorated for 12 years, so although I've started it's been slow progression....
lakshsony · 31-35, F
maybe you can sit down and talk with him about your situation before making any decision. but keeping clean and tidy place is equally important for yourself.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@lakshsony my place isn't dirty but to eliminate any possibilities of him seeing something I may have missed I gave it all a good blitz.
And it paid off.
He said it was cosy and comfortable
And it paid off.
He said it was cosy and comfortable
