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Is it normal to feel nervous about inviting someone to your home?

I've started to really like him.
But his behaviour has been so disciplined and respectful that I've become nervous.

I'm paranoid that my place isn't tidy or clean enough.

I feel like I want to cancel tbh.

My home has a lot of issues, and I feel like it will just disappoint him.

Obviously being judged by others in the past doesn't help!

I never feel like this but he's made me this become a big deal.

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exchrist · 31-35
Return his kindness for all u know he's a mess at home. Also yes it's okay to be nervous have a new romantic over. Personally I just leave it be except twice a week when I clean everything. I clean as I go as much as possible
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@exchrist I do but when you live somewhere for a while you can become a bit blind. Also I've not decorated for 12 years, so although I've started it's been slow progression....
exchrist · 31-35
@Mellowgirl I've never put anything on my walls. So I feel ypu
exchrist · 31-35
I prefer it plain