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Is it normal to feel nervous about inviting someone to your home?

I've started to really like him.
But his behaviour has been so disciplined and respectful that I've become nervous.

I'm paranoid that my place isn't tidy or clean enough.

I feel like I want to cancel tbh.

My home has a lot of issues, and I feel like it will just disappoint him.

Obviously being judged by others in the past doesn't help!

I never feel like this but he's made me this become a big deal.

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Gangstress · 41-45, F
Don't let your insecurities take hold hun
Im sure no matter itll be absolutely fine
Ive been there with inviting people over, esp people i respect. But thats my own insecurity. It doesn't make them judgemental hun and i also need to know that
We haven't decorated for 8 years but its fine. Its clean lol
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Gangstress I guess I just want to make a good impression. When people haven't been kind it doesn't make it easy to open up my safe space to another.
My home is import to me, it's saved me from a lot