What’s the worst date you ever been on?

i met a woman online and we talked for a few weeks before agreeing to meet. i showed up a bit early and was drinking a beer at the outside patio watching people as they entered the bar. i saw this lady walk up who was wearing clothes way way too tight and they were not complementary on her at all. and she had enough make up on to fill a mabelline counter. i thought to myself. please God no. yep, it was her. the pictures she had sent me had to have been at least ten years prior. looked nothing like her. i figured, well, its just one evening, i can deal with it. when she walked up, the first thing she said is....... "Dont i look just like my pictures" LOL i can only imagine the look on my face. to make matters worse, she was extremely loud and boisterous. i got a call shortly after that one of my kids was not feeling very well. i had to leave a bit early. she called a week later and wanted to go out again. sorry, i met someone else.

He asked me to dinner and said to meet him in a bar beforehand (presumably for a pre-dinner drink). He was about 15 mins late to the bar and said we'd have to leave now as it was a busy restaurant and they may not keep our booking if we arrived late. He said we'd walk to restaurant as it was "just down the road". About half an hour's walk later we arrived at a tiny tapas bar. He ordered the cheapest house wine and looked at the menu and said to ne "actually, I am not that hungry, so you order something and I will eat off the side of your plate". I stood up and put my coat on and told him to enjoy his cheap wine and left.

I met a guy thru a friend at her party.
She introduced me to a guy from China, an exchange student.
He asked me out and I said yes.
We went to his apt and we met up with his roommate.
My date asked me what I thought of a pic on a wall and I said it was interesting.
He said it looked like a vagina and that he heard that American girls were easy.😒
We left and went to a Chinese restaurant.
Then afterwards we got beer and went to a beach.
He bought a 6 pack and gave me one then drank the rest quickly.
He took us for a drive and I asked him to take me home but he kept saying he wanted to watch the sun come up.
I told him no I want to go home now.
So he finally took me home and dropped me off.
I told my mom about it and she thought weird.
The next morning he knocked on my parents door and my mom said I wasnt interested in seeing him.
We thought he left but he didnt. He stayed looking thru all of our windows before he left.
A few weeks later I got a letter from him saying he was back in China and that if I was still interested in him to write back. I never did!

I went to a restaurant with a guy and on route he said he needed to put some petrol in his car so we stopped at a filling station. He was just about to pay and he made a big show about accidentally forgetting his wallet so I paid for his petrol. He then asked me if I would mind paying for the meal too because if he went home to get his wallet we would be late for the reservation so we went directly to the restaurant where he ordered a pretty expensive steak. At this point I genuinely believed he had accidentally forgotten his wallet so I gave him the benefit of doubt and we had a second date. At the end of the meal on the second date, he said he was a bit short of money and would I mind going Dutch with him! I paid half but I said I was busy when he phoned again and asked me for a third date.

She was accompanied by her ex when she arrived, while he had their baby at hand. She hugged him deeply before taking the baby and focussing like totally on both her baby and her smartphone while the first real sentence towards me was "would you like to have kids some day" as if she was collecting babies from random men. I left at first chance.

Had a couple awkward ones now and then but the worst -
Some weird lady who was incapable of laughing or even smiling. She kind of put off a vibe like you might get around your friend's parents.
Like "Get out the egg shells".

She was a complete SQUARE. Like the PBS or tofu of the dating scene. Plain Jane and could ramble about NOTHING til her face turned blue.
Even the SW simps would be turned off.

We decided things were not going to work out. Shortly after though we decided to go have dinner for some odd reason.
That night I called my friend "K" and said, "Hey I am suppose to have dinner with that weird woman, can I hang out at your place instead?"

This is more shocking because it was 20 years ago, before rudeness was a national pastime.

It was through a site called "It's Only Lunch."

The gentleman looked like a Neanderthal and quickly proved he WAS a Neanderthal.

After a thorough assessment of my figure, he asked what cup size I was. He drank two martinis before the food arrived, and slapped the waitress on the butt as she passed him.

I went to powder my nose, gave the waitress money for my order and left.

I went on a double date with a friend of mine. It was a guy she worked with, and his roommate. We had a couple of drinks and dinner at a restaurant, then they invited us to watch a movie at their place and we accepted (but made it very clear the movie would be ALL we would be doing).

When we got to their house, it looked like a hoarder lived there!!!! It was so nasty and we didn't even want to sit on the furniture. My friend made up something about her stomach not feeling well, and we QUICKLY left.

Guys, if you live like a pig, please don't invite women back to your place!!! 🤮

He went to pay for dinner, and his bank card got declined. Then when he was driving me home, his car broke down.

Regarding your story, some men have a very narrow concept of what femininity is "supposed" to be.

My worst date was a blind date with someone with such a thick Boston accent that I could barely understand her. I kept responding to her by asking "what?"

Before long, she started looking at me as if I was a complete idiot! 😂

First date with a new woman, we meet up at the bar where we first met. She shoots a game of pool with a friend of mine. During it, she gives him her phone number. He has a gf at the time and I'm out of there

What a jerk. My story is not so bad, i was on a blind date, set up by a friend. The guy was so nervous he couldnt stop shaking, i understand nerves and anxiety but he made me nervous by the end of it.

One time a guy bought me perfume and took me out to dinner and expected sex on our first date. I was like 😳

A blind date.... zero attraction.

He was probably intimidated by you and wanted to “neg you” to make you chase him.

If I had any doubt that I was in the company of a trans person at any moment I would politely end the date… if I get that vibe from you it doesn’t even matter if you’re a woman. I’d be creeped out.

He was wrong and rude to say that to you.

That guy was clearly a spanner.
I hooked up with a guy when I was on a trip away from home,we went up to my hotel room for what should have been a night of great sex.When he got undressed his cock just did not measure up to my expectations.I literally threw him out the room and tossed his clothes out after him.

LOL, I cannot understand why the current society feels like they can just open their mouths and say any rude or disgusting thing that comes to their minds. It seems to be more and more prevalent.
We unfortunately live in a sick society, sadly tough to find decent nice people.

My one and only blind date. It was to help out a fraternity brother whose sister and her friend were in town. Another brother and I took the girls to the fraternity party, where the other brother immediately got drunk and helped the girls get drunk. I ended up being stuck with both giggly females.

It sounds as though the guy was a loser. He probably couldn't handle your femininity. You were obviously to much woman for him. He will probably turn out to be a kiddy-fiddler, either that or he is gay.

He is a fuckwit

It sounds like he probably had a guy lie to him and say they were female , he had no reason to behave like that though, no class.

That is just.....shocking!

Wow...tack....respect...and other things I really can't think of....

That guy hadn't got it! Lol!

He is a smuck and you totally deserve the company of better individuals.
I'm sorry for that

He sounds like a right prat lol....i think he did you a favour by removing himself from your dating scene lol

I didn’t get married until I was 43. There is no way I can pick just one. 🤣

🤔...............The ones that end with no sex................just joking.............

Maybe he's secretly gay and was projecting

Who knows why he thought that....

I’ll date you 😁

How romantic

I got invited to a Henchmans shebang.(Biker club...and not my scene).
Got there, and he instantly fucked off to schmooze and flirt.
I was left in this biker club, by myself, not knowing anyone.

I got a drink, and saw a huge blank whiteboard behind it.
So i sligged my drink, waled behind the bar, and started drawing on it.

I drew sexy nude girlies on bikes all around the edge, put the Henchmans logo at the top. Spent ages on it.

A nice mature lady came to the bar and commented on it, (she was the wife of one of the head dudes) - such a nice lady. We ended up talking tattoos, art, men , advice. Spent most of the night with her.
Never saw the guy i went with the whole night.

Later found out that that was their message board for meetings.....and that no one is supposed to touch it.
I was such a noob🙄

But.....(found out later), they kept my artwork on it for years🤷‍♀️
Which was nice.

A good night, but it was crap as dates go.

I am sorry that happened.

I went on a date when I was 17 with a guy and I didn’t click with him.

He got obsessed with me and he started stalking me. He came to my house one day and tried to sexually assault me. My dad came home just in time.

I had to get a restraining order against him.

Sadly many FOOLS judge by looks alone

My grandmother set me up on a blind date wirh a woman, on my 23rd birthday when I already had plams to go to the Oregon coast with my cousin for the day. All she would talk about was how she liked playing bball with the crew and get drunk afterwards.