So LADIES, what is the difference between your boyfriend/husband being on Tinder, and you being on SW complaining about it?

@Handfull1 More common sense than wise. The so-called 'reward' that most women have to offer is not worth the fickleness, the deceit, the treachery, or the aggravation that comes with it.
The only thing I ever wanted or needed from a woman was to allow me to care for her, satisfy her, and make her happy. Since you can't make them happy and they are never satisfied, it makes sense to eliminate the the above and make myself content and insouciant.

@SmileOnYourBrother you’re right, not wise! It takes two to make a relationship work. And compromise. Most of your posts show little of that. I’m sorry your past relationships and perspective have left you bitter towards women. You’re doing the same thing against women that you don’t want against men. As long as you’re happy, I guess it’s all that matters. If not, look within! ✌🏼☮

@Piper

@SmileOnYourBrother It is two separate words, no matter what you found on Google.

@Piper Whatever you say, leibeschön. 😘

@SmileOnYourBrother there’s a million reasons people do. Some people are just nasty in general. Often, more is involved than just that. Marriage takes two. One maybe doesn’t cheat conventionally but there’s a million ways to withhold the love and attention the other deserves.

@SW-User Nor will everyone engage in those things on Tinder. 🤷

@SmileOnYourBrother Why are they on Tinder for then 😆 it’s the main purpose of that app, a dating app.

@SW-User I'm sure you notice the stampede of sleazy guys who will pounce on what they perceive to be a vulnerable woman on SW. And the woman usually expects and loves the attention.
I don't see the difference. 🙂

@LadyJ 😂🤣😂 Probably true.

@Frostcloud I never said that. I SAID that IMO anyone in a romantic relationship and on social media is cheating in some way, shape , or form.

Tinder is social media. And how do we know the Tinder cheater isn't just venting?

@SmileOnYourBrother well if being in a relationship and using social media is cheating, then only single people should use social media. because people shouldnt cheat.

and yes tinder is social media, i just mean it was specifically designed for relationships, and if youre using that specifically then it is cheating. but the majority of social media is for self expression and to keep in contact with loved ones. people posting on sw to speak on their grief, depression, or even just the walk they took in the park, arent looking to be hit up by weird strangers

@Frostcloud Okay. Thank you for your input.
Personally, I see no difference if a man is on one social site and a woman is on another.

@SmileOnYourBrother interestingly she can be quite lady like. Just to clarify, I don’t equate this to Tinder.

@notladylikeshubby Just trying to make a point here. Nothing personal. I have no doubt she and many internet women can be quite lady like.

@SmileOnYourBrother What is lady like anyway?