@katykatt Katy, would you two like a sponsor so you can grow her big boots even bigger? Perhaps at first she is ordering you around to bring her more and more but by the time she is immobile, full, and not interested on more, you switch to bei g the dominant one and stuff her to her absolute limits.
@RedBaron Exactly. Hopefully though there are medical professionals trying to find the root of the obsession and help people out of it - bearing in mind each patient may have his or her own reason not necessarily the same as others..