OogieBoogie · F
I use specific compliments, and they only happen if truly spontaneously inspired, like:
" Gosh you smell nice"
" You have absolutely gorgeous hair"
" That skirt is just stunning"
" I gotta say, your whole look is so stylish"
" Man, your beard is terrific, (only said when you can tell a lot of effort has been put into it)
" Your style is so originally snazzy"
- stuff like that
I like to pick specific things that REALLY genuinely strike me.
" Gosh you smell nice"
" You have absolutely gorgeous hair"
" That skirt is just stunning"
" I gotta say, your whole look is so stylish"
" Man, your beard is terrific, (only said when you can tell a lot of effort has been put into it)
" Your style is so originally snazzy"
- stuff like that
I like to pick specific things that REALLY genuinely strike me.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
I’ve told women they’re incredibly pretty, but I’ve never complimented a man in the same way. It never feels…safe to? If that makes sense.
ThePatientAnarchist · 61-69
@PerfectionOfTheHeart unfortunately it does make sense
Ducky · 31-35, F
I've been told that a few times. Before health issues disfigured my face, anyway. But it was a nice confidence booster when it did happen.
SinlessOnslaught · M
Sure why not. I've complimented clothes before or basically anything. If I think someone has something going on and I'm in a social mood then I'll say it.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I think it`s different coming from a woman. A guy my age probably wouldn`t be as acceptable.
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
@Degbeme good point
MambaJuice · 41-45, M
@Degbeme or a man some women usually tend to walk a little faster 😂
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@Degbeme Ageism
akindheart · 61-69, F
no because that can come across as creepy but i always let someone know when they give good customer service. i keep it business.
SmoothKnight · 56-60, M
If a conversation starts and the topic of looks comes up I will. Otherwise I won't, mainly because too many people would feel uneasy for a random man to spout off a compliment, especially to a woman.
Silentpleasure · 31-35, F
I will usually say I love your hair, nails, makeup, or love the outfit....
Patty81 · 41-45, C
@Silentpleasure yes, if there is something specific that I like I'll comment or ask where she got it...
Peek4U · M
Absolutely!
I compliment most anyone in ways to get them to smile or laugh.
I compliment most anyone in ways to get them to smile or laugh.
PoeticPlay · 56-60, M
I love telling people something about themselves that they may not be aware of.
If they are aware, I love praising their success. 😍
If they are aware, I love praising their success. 😍
BillyMack · 46-50, M
Gotta be careful these days as a dude. So I’ll say no.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@BillyMack Ya I wouldn't do that anymore.
SomethingNew2 · 56-60, M
I would love to hear that once in a while. Really.
Macdog24 · 51-55, M
I would say you are cute
Fullmetal · 51-55, M
I look in the bathroom mirror every morning and say "hey handsome"! The shower gets turned on!!
Magenta · F
Maybe only if I truly meant it and not just flattery.
Lilymoon · F
Sure sometimes:)
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
That's a toughie. They can take it either ways especially nowadays. The can be flattered are think you are a perv.
I appreciate beauty so I always say something
saragoodtimes · F
just don't say it to your GYN when he's doing an exam
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
Nahh, I'm pretty shy like that.
i only compliment women/girls, men tend to get the wrong idea.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@deathfairy oh definitely
exexec · 70-79, C
No, but my wife seems to like it when it happens to her.
Ferric67 · M
Creepy
Nah
Never from you
Now, someone like Gerry
Sure it can be a tad bit uncomfortable
Nah
Never from you
Now, someone like Gerry
Sure it can be a tad bit uncomfortable
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
@Ferric67 Who’s Gerry?
Ferric67 · M
@FreeSpirit1 free vip from big Ger
pdockal · 56-60, M
I'll just smile as men can't get away with saying things that women can say
TexChik · F
Only if they are over 85. Then its safe.