Girls, if you can change one thing in men?

@Coralmist I think human as a race improved a lot during the centuries. Like compassion and sympathy probably didn't even exist at the beginning.
A man instinctly a protector and hunter. There are a lot of drawbacks of course.

@Cheesecake Even that limited knowledge is more than the knowledge on their heart and mind.

@justanotherone fair point mate 😕

@PaleandPolluted yes because great sex not only stimulates the physical senses of touch and hearing but eyesight as well that's why you have things like pretty lingerie high heels toys etc it's for the eyes to enjoy as well

@KingofBones1 yes hence why i wish they werent visual so their standards werent so high

@PaleandPolluted finding visual stimulants attractive is having high standards now it sounds like your perception is off that's the problem

@lissah Dishonesty is not just a male issue. But I accept it as a problem.

@justanotherone i know it can be a female problem too

@ScreamingFox i think if we would ask him he would tell a different story

@justanotherone When I ask him he apologizes and says he knows and he's working on it. But it keeps happening. Who knows what he would tell you. It tells others. I only know what he tells me, which isn't much

@ScreamingFox Typical issues between men and women. I understand your frustration.

@SW-User I’ve read that it’s a huge turn off for men to be vulnerable to women.

@Theyitis Where did you read that? Women are not monolithic; therefore, I'm not sure how anyone came to the notion that all women were turned off by a man's vulnerability; I'm not.

@SW-User Don’t remember where I read it. Maybe not all women are turned off by men being vulnerable, but the vast majority are.

@justanotherone
What's a lot in your definition?

As for this site, I can only answer from my own experiences; first of all they are women feeling trapped inside a male body. Some have gone through with GAS. In general on an average I do believe they are behaving better than men in general on an average. I've been talking to a few and they sound like decent and sincere people. I can say the same about a few men, tho not for the major part of men around this place.

@SUPERVlXEN Maybe they were different at the beginning and they didn't change during the process.
I understand. You can't pick up only one problem from men and say that's the biggest.. I am sorry.

@justanotherone
There's no one thing. Life isn't black and white. Nice thought experiment if things were that easy. However, I played along and made a generic response tho I have met decent and sincere men, even if at a lower rate. Somehow I like Piet Hein's The Eternal Twins...

Taking fun
as simply fun
and earnestness
in earnest
shows how thoroughly
thou none
of the two
discernest.

@tenente that's how I feel too