For me it's a good personality. Got to be.funny and kind.
Got to be willing to be experimental in bedroom.
And accepting of my personality and size

I like cute. Cute is huge for me. But a fun personality always helps. Age is not a factor... I like girls of all ages. And a real genuine smile. <3

Having things in common, feeling the same way about things, being respectful towards one another, etc.

Personality biiiig time. That can literally change how the outside looks to me. The outside is just a bonus really.
Age I'm not too big on. As long as no one is getting into trouble. Although too young or old still would make me nervous unless I really loved them.
Religion... As long as the aren't a fundamentalist or extremist of some kind. I don't have to believe like another does to love them. Although I have met plenty of people that are married to their religion and having another partner just becomes a third wheel sort of thing.
Basically dont take anything to the extreme.
Really helps if the person is a nerd/geek. Likes books, games, science, history, heck even math although I'm not good at it. lol Someone that helps push me some to be better but not over the edge. Someone I can take care of and baby. lol So clingy is not a turn off for me.
Im weird. lol

I have a lot of preferences, so much so that I can't even say I have a type.

Once you get past the initial physical attraction, it's definitely personality — sense of humor, intelligence, kindness, all of that.

Finding out she's kind of a freak helps.

I don't really care about age beyond the "consenting adult" thing.

Religious beliefs can play a factor, but that's part of the whole personality package.

Definitely personality. A good sit down chat will shake out a lot of initial baggage. Sure religion matters. When someone starts with astrology crap, right away I’ll be doubtful.

Ultimately it comes down to personality. Kindness and a good sense of humor always get my attention :)

I was first attracted by her great smile and cute face. I could see those from a distance. When we actually met and talked, her personality sealed the deal.

The first things I look for, are kindness and compassion.
If those aren't there, there's no point in looking any farther.

Age isn't important to me. Although, I think it's more likely that someone close to my age would be a better fit, spiritually (not religiously). But there are exceptions, which I don't want to overlook just because someone is much older or younger.

It's a combination of looks and personality.
However I can be attracted to someone's look almost instantaneously, whereas it takes time to understand someone's personality.
Also on truth I am usually attracted to younger women.

I like variety
I can enjoy age gap. or "religious" transgressions,
I like the forbidden

but more than ANYTHING ELSE?

is the look in her eyes when she realizes,, "ohhh thats exciting"

For me it’s about how they look/what they wear, my girlf and me both enjoy going to church and have the same sense of humour which really helps.

I think its a mixture of all of those you just have to accept everything about the other person and accept them for who and what they are

Personality is really important.. have to be able to have a conversation and be light hearted and funny

I'm aromantic and asexual. Never found anyone attractive on any level. 🙃🙃

personality and intelligence make anyone more attractive!

Eyes and personality. That’s it. Most other things are a turn on for me.

Age not really.....the outer look does count at first

Personality. Submissive and cute.

Everything sort of factors. It becomes hard to identify specific make or break elements. Looks, personally, and yes even age and religion are all factors.