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Pretty scary getting older, being single and in physical pain, and realizing..

..[i]it's only going to get worse[/i] and i have [i]no one to take care of me[/i]
KatyO83 · 36-40, F
What is more scary is that this is posted by someone in my age bracket.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@KatyO83 The old man is still pretty spry.
KatyO83 · 36-40, F
@Degbeme I'll play dirty
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I’m sorry B. Please be well. 💕
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@mindstruggle ty bb xoxo
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
I’ve never had anyone to take care of me. People expect me to take care of them, but come up short in the other direction. All take, no give in return. That’s why I can count the number of people I trust on one hand and still have fingers left. And with the way society has been going, it’s only going to get worse.
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@travelguy01 my dad said he had a lot of trouble finding counselors willing to do family counseling..and they insisted on a christian counselor, which, i think..stacks the deck already. even tho i am a Christian, i am a staunchy anti trump christian..who speaks her mind..cusses sometimes..gets passionate sometimes..and will take on a man at my leisure, never by necessity. i was given 3 choices, and i chose of the 3. the one i WANTED to go to was the gay gentleman who has a history of standing up for abuse victims. but if we went to him, his defense, to them, would be "just bc he was gay and therefore chock full of rebellious sin like me"
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
@foldedunfolding Is this court ordered?
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@travelguy01 no..it is my attempt to show my nieces and nephews that i would go to the ends of the earth for them, even tho [i]fuck[/i] the adults in this situation..i will likely need to go NC with all of them. my dad is stage 4 and not doing well, and this is also being treated as an almost dying wish 😪😪😪 i have never been to court nor jail ha
I find myself in the same mindset. It can be crushing ):
I have an appointment this week to try to address the physical pain part but I'm not very hopeful. After all this time a little tweak to a prescription isn't going to cut it.
Know that you NOT alone in this world, in the position you are in , going to get into, what you have been through. Because there are so many of us out here in the world that have similar problems or are going through similarly things & I know how easy it is for people to pass a eye, look pass you.
SO I wish the same thing for me as well sista! lol.
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@Mamawolff95 aww thank you. it seems like i am doomed to bow my head to marriage if i want someone to care for me when i age. i dont want to marry a man just so i can own a slave :-/
@foldedunfolding I completely understand what you mean & where you are coming from. Message me any time if you want, I am here.
Number99 · 46-50, M
How come a beautiful woman like you full of energy and smart be single.

My advice to you, put an AD asking for a friend possible to upgrade to a boyfriend and maybe more.
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@Number99 aw thank you..i am choosing to be for now, bc my standards are high but my picker is off. i have also embarked on counseling and have a lot of self work to do.
DCGuy77 · 26-30, M
I am sorry to hear that.. Sad part is every single day is challenging than the previous day as we grow older.. It feels that the student life and childhood days were best in a person's life...
The getting older and pain do suck, you are not old at all and can still find the one.
May I pray for you?
@foldedunfolding been pretty rough… but I’m still alive, so…

🖤🙏
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@DarkHeaven im so sorry..it has been so rough for me too.
@foldedunfolding 🖤🤗
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
No one in your age group should be going through that
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@JohnnyNoir thank you..sadly being overweight has a lot of health consequences, and so does having a toxic ass family
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
❤️I’m sorry you are feeling this way
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@BLP11520 thank you. just hits me sometimes 😔
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
@foldedunfolding I know, this time of year makes it more acute too
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
@BLP11520 🤗
Ducky · 31-35, F
You deserve so much better, poor Brittybabes 💔
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@Ducky ily..im just going THROUGH it girl. noe cracks in my house..dad's cancer and back surgery..layoffs at work..no fam at christmas..it has been so rough.. cried myself to sleep last night.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
Big hug mate!
foldedunfolding · 36-40, F
@Abstraction thank you, thunder from down under
Degbeme · 70-79, M
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
My cold ass wife is oblivious to how i feel
Pherick · 41-45, M
I know the feeling :(
mindless · M
Yeah ..... 😕

 
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