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My ex says I am attractive but I am not conventionally beautiful, like the type in magazines. How should I take this?

We were just catching up and chatting. Is that really a bad thing? He went on to say the beauty surrounds me and that I am pretty but not the common type ...it was a struggle until he didn't want to talk about it anymore
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
So you're not a model that's OK who is? But you're still beautiful in your own way OK that sounds like a compliment I don't know if he worded it right
LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
@TheRascallyOne yeah, after he said he didn't want to talk about it anymore. We initially started talking about women who were pretty so I went in for it.... It's something I am sensitive about but that's life
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
@LoneGirl101 that's kinda wired he should have just left it at that.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
It sounds he's saying you're beautiful but not in some common, conventional way, that you're unique and special.

Sounds like he was trying to tell you that you're special to him.
LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
@DunningKruger I would hope so. I'll just keep thinking that way to feel good. 😁
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@LoneGirl101 Maybe he's hinting that he doesn't want to be your ex anymore.
Ferric67 · M
@DunningKruger that's what it seems like
Fluffybull · F
Why are you obsessing about what an ex said? He's an ex for a reason.
Let them remain an ex.
Torsten · 36-40, M
"Conventionally beautiful" to me just means fake as hell. Photoshopped and all that. Maybe he didn't mean it that same way but I would take it as a complement personally.
Natural beauty type of thing
SW-User
Wait. Hold up. The man said 'you're pretty but not the common type'?

And my ex says i was bad at compliments.
SW-User
@LoneGirl101 Perhaps they're right and he worded it right... or not.
LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
@SW-User I don't even know . Guess I'll just have to take it as a good thing
SW-User
@LoneGirl101 probably for the best
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
Sounds like he started rambling on a little bit too much. But of course you’re an x now I don’t have to walk on egg shells with what he talks to you
LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
@Jonjdw I think he said too much. I saw him complementing his ex that she was beautiful in a text but I never got that unless I asked
Ferric67 · M
Take it as a compliment that he still thinks you're a hottie 😉
LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
@Ferric67 okay
Miram · 31-35, F
It doesn't matter what he thinks of your looks. He is an ex.
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PoeticPlay · 51-55, M
He doesn't mean it.

If so, he wouldn't be your ex. 😕
SW-User
Exes say things, we're worse to listen to/worry about anything an "ex" says
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@SW-User Unless you want a cuddle lol
SW-User
@Justenjoyit like why on earth would an ex want a cuddle, I'm confused 😅
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Uhh sounds like my ex. He was a porn addict though so his idea of beauty was different than others.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
If he says you are attractive, believe it. Remember. You were together for awhile
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
The types in magazines are not conventionally beautiful. They are not conventional at all. They are fictions created in photoshop.

I think you should take it as your ex isn't very intelligent...
eMortal · M
If you live in the same town, he trying to get in your pants again.
Beauty comes in different forms and different styles.
Northwest · M
Why is he an ex?
LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
@Northwest it didn't work out. Loads went wrong
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Erm, you are exes. It's no surprise you don't get him. And even if he doesn't think you're pretty, who cares?

 
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