What did you feel first time when you got touched by same gender ?

I guess this is for people who have sexual attraction to their own gender. I’ve never felt anything for my own gender because I’m straight. I’ve never been disgusted about kissing a woman but not excited or turned on either. I’ve never wanted to get intimate with a woman but maybe if I drank too much and she was very attractive I might be able to give it a try.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

I have never (yet) had any intimate experiences with the same sex/gender as myself (ie. male/man/bloke/dude) and would need to be guided/reassured a *lot* that it was ok (in the right context) probably by a woman known to one or both of us.

Because I have never enjoyed receiving oral sex I find it really difficult to enjoy being intimately touched by anyone (including a woman) as I'm embarassed about my inabilty to get pleasure from all aspects of sex.

Re childhood I have zero memories of any innapropriate touching by my parents during normal childhood 'stuff'. They divorced when I was 12.

GentleLucille · 26-30, F

Intense excitement and passion, followed by confusion when I realised my knickers were wet.

KarenDuponteDurose · 51-55, F

Mum? Probably, change my nappy time! Lol! But, mostly, comfort, care & security...

With a girl I fancied? Around 8...9...something like that...I forgot to breathe and nearly choked...why? Because I was surprised.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Happens all the time when shaking hands to greet people at my work - it's mostly men with few women and they're all either lesbian or already taken or social disaster zones (kinda like me)

Doesn't produce any wierd feelings. I've never been touched intimately by another guy so have no idea what that might be like. I've hardly been touched intimately by women just for clarification. (see follow-up above)