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What's Your Take On This?

I recently saw that Cher is with a guy who is 40 years younger than her while Madonna is with a guy who is 35 years younger than her.

For many people,they tend to be more accepting when the guy is the much older one.An example will be Chris Evans whose wife is 16 years younger than him.

What if the woman is the one who is 16 years older?Will many people still be accepting of it though?

To the men reading this post,will you be with someone 15 years older or more?

To the women who have been with a much younger guy,was the age gap an issue at all for you?

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Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

I’ve dated younger and older. Each relationship is unique. Generally men are attracted to youth and beauty, women are attracted leadership and status.

PinkMoon · 26-30, F

@Quetzalcoatlus true.

PhoenixPhail · M

@Quetzalcoatlus Even more important than leadership and status, women are attracted to men who will provide for them.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Are the young guys with Cher or Madonna there for love, or fame and fortune?
They are spectacular women, don’t get me wrong!

Lilnonames · F

@Quimliqer money

PhoenixPhail · M

@Lilnonames Yes, that's one huge consideration.

Northwest · M

If this is what they want; and this is what the man want; and no one is forced into it; then to each their own. The President of France is married to a woman 25 years his senior, I'm pretty sure he's not after her fame, or money.

I would totally do Susan Sarandon, but alas I'm too old. The last guy she was seeing, was some 45 years younger than her.

I prefer to date within my age group.

Lilyb · 22-25, F

Get em young and train them, like a good bird dog!

Rokan · 31-35, M

Personally for me if im thinking of having kids and a family and doing all that stuff it got to be someone around my age. I want to be the one who is going to die first i dont want to spend life alone because i married someone 30 years older than me.

Longpatrol · 31-35, M

There's Emmanuel Macron and his wife Birgitte Macron, there's a 24 year age gap and she was his teacher

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@Longpatrol Talk about teacher/student interactions!!

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smiler2012 · 56-60

@IHTBY 🤷‍♂maybe there is an age difference but if they are happy who can deny them that

Miram · 31-35, F

This thread is good reference of accounts that should remain/be on a watchlist.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

Whatever makes them happy, it's really none of my business who anyone dates/loves.

Threepio

TBH... I immediately thought of a meme I had seen.....

To answer your question....

Would I be with someone 15 years older?

In my youth I did have a long-term relationship with woman much older than myself.... so YES.
Today... probably not. I have no desire to become a caregiver right now, I am having too much fun.

In short: As long as both parties are consenting adults... I have no issue with their choices.

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

Whenever i see such a big sge gap all i see is a transaction

Gingerbreadspice · F

I mean like 15-16 years is quite a lot but nothing like 35 or 40 years which is about half of someone’s life span. I have known a few women who were married to men 15-18 years younger than them. I also wanted to date a guy 16 years younger than me but at my age at the time he was under 20. So I decided wasn’t a good idea.