What would you make of...

I get that sometimes too, sweetie..

😘

Trying to get closer 🤔...

During all my years on SW (and previously on EP) there's only a handful of people I've shared my phone number with - and that was after building up a close and trusting relationship online.

Two days ago he asked:

"can I share my cell with you?"

I replied - pretty bluntly:

"No. I don't chat on any other platforms other than SW"

Then today he sent this:

"I'm happy to share my mobile no. with you.. we aren't kids. And from the one long chat we had weeks back, I trust you.. so here goes..."

And he just sent his number.

sounds like you handled it appropriatly

I had exactly the same interaction with I'm sure the same guy! 😂

I would be upset with them.

What’s his username?

Stalker territory!

Scammer of some kind! I have had women do this to me that is what I say scam!

You set your boundaries and he tried to bypass them

If you accepted that, then what boundary would he try to push next

You did right.

And time for another block?

i end up ghosting them because they don't respect my wishes

Red flags. Friends are offline and give you their number in person.

It happens all the time, usually within 5 messages after the start of a conversation. They're probably trying to scam people and don't like the warnings SW give, so they want to first take their victims to a platform where those are more vulnerable.

Yeah I'm never a big fan of that either like what's the matter with where we're chatting now

Maybe if a person was interested in another person they might go overboard.As long as you are clear in your responses then people should respect that.But hopefully you wouldnt actually fall out over it..

They don't respect your choice or your comfort zone!

I've had dudes here give me their number, address and whatnot, it's funny how much sw men don't care.

I would assume they want to talk to you but don’t care to come here. For myself when I’m e agreed to do this, it doesn’t last long because I do not use WhatsApp or any other platform so I’m bad at checking up on them.

Um...no, I'm not giving my phone number just to anyone. It would require some specific situation for that.

I'd suspect a fraud attempt.

Some people try too hard perhaps.We are in control of our own information arent we.You dont have to tell anything you dont want.

Block was made for such people

No means NO.

He's probably trying to escalate whatever relationship he believes you two share. That or he's impatient and he wants to use something that provides more immediacy in responses. Or both.

I don't have any of that stuff, never understood the piont if were both here already🤷‍♂

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Someone that doesn’t listen to you.

Hard of listening and not someone I'd carry on with

That is childish behavior from the person, I think

Easily dump and block those individuals.