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How does one become a drama insider?

I never know what’s going on. Do you have to have opinions on stuff?
How do they even collect members? Is this happening in pm?

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Miram · 31-35, F
@deadgerbil has the intel. He does not dissapoint
itsok · 31-35, F
@Miram so that’s my in? 👀
deadgerbil · 22-25
Miram · 31-35, F
@itsok Positive. He was made in the image of the lawd ,omniscient.
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
WE CAN START OUR OWN DRAMA CLUB

Like OHMYGOD did you hear what hungdaddi42069187 did?
itsok · 31-35, F
@KingofPizza2 that’s my alt 😏
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
@itsok Ooooooh well then you’ve got the scoop. SPILL IT
SW-User
It's definitely happening in PM. I remember a long time ago I had members I'd never interacted with before claiming they hated me on posts, and I found out it was bc some middle aged woman was talking shit about me to other ppl privately because of a falling out I had with our mutual friend.
SW-User
@itsok Yeah it was weird. Some people have nothing better to do than insert themselves in other people's business. She eventually tried to apologize but I've just had her blocked for years now lol.
itsok · 31-35, F
@SW-User That was a very short-lived interest in drama for me. I think it would have me constantly anxious.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User that’s terrible, I am sorry.
summersong · F
Tbh I’m happier not knowing. Half the time the drama is just people being shitty to each other and blaming the other person for it, and 100% of the time the people involved in the drama will just pull you into it and before you know it there’s drama about you.

And yeah it’s going on in PMs or group chats on other platforms. People use it as social currency even though it’s questionable whether it’s even true or not.
summersong · F
@Coppercoil lol I’m quite sure there are people talking shit about me, there was a massive drop-off in people who interact with me a handful of months back, but nonetheless I appreciate the monitoring 😆
Coppercoil · M
@summersong they dropped off cause i killed them tbh. They were traitors to the cause.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@summersong you are 100% correct about this
thepropulsivepanda · 31-35, M
I just pop in, post weird GIFs, and leave. 😂

itsok · 31-35, F
@thepropulsivepanda I appreciate your gifs. I feel like I’m missing out though and I don’t know how 🤔
thepropulsivepanda · 31-35, M
@itsok I feel the same way most of the time. 🤔🤔
😅

Pick a topic that's an instant fire starter -- like politics.
Climb up on your soap box, and be deliberately obstinate and argumentative, just because.
Once the angry mob starts hurling objects and insults, egg them on.

Overnight you'll become an SW 'A - Lister, ' and drama diva with a VIP entourage.

itsok · 31-35, F
@SethGreene531 ok so first bring up something controversial, get people mad at each other, become popular. got it 😌
@itsok .....Or just follow the trouble and befriend our resident gossipers.
That way you won't find an angry mob at your door.😄
deadgerbil · 22-25
I love drama but I get lost too with some of the drama on here lol people can be so cryptic
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@deadgerbil how do you know everything 🤣. You are worse than a woman lol
deadgerbil · 22-25
@iamonfire696 I'm this way at work too. I get everyone's gossip lol
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@deadgerbil what do you do with all of this knowledge lol
Ferric67 · M
I got one pm this past week. Just one, and I'm not complaining about...just sharing my truth.
It came from someone that I don't know. So, I snooped on their profile and found no stories.
I think that nothing is happening in pms....from my own personal experience.
I'm not responding to some anonymous person that I have no rapport with.
itsok · 31-35, F
@Ferric67 the only messages that go to my inbox are from friends. everyone else scares me 👀
Ferric67 · M
@itsok I'm not scared, I just see everyone as a figment of my imagination.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
When you find out, please keep it to yourself. 🤭
itsok · 31-35, F
@Degbeme I’m dragging you in with me, deg
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Reject · 26-30, M
I never know either. How are we supposed to gossip like this?!
@Reject lmao back then I was never challenging on here so never blocked anybody. I thought it was cool that i never had to block anyone but then when I made this account, I blocked my first person ever on any social media. & Now I have like 16 or so blocked 😌 when shade is thrown, I typically shrug it off. But when it's constant & the person is just hateful, then I block. Because I have no room for that energy around me anymore.

But thanks man you're one of my favorites here too 🙏 I haven't interacted with Roka but I see him around so I gotta make more effort to reach out to cool people here like him too. The SW feed forces us to talk to the same 5 people all the time its wack. Tacobell & Irish are some of my faves too. Irish actually sent me a long voice message before deleting his account & I didn't hear it till it was too late 🥺 he said he'd be glad to keep in touch if we exchanged contact info but yeah I missed that message so damn. But I wish him the best
Reject · 26-30, M
@ChiefWalksWith40oz I have yet to block someone! I have muted a few though because I get it. Some people you just don’t need to see so much of. Lol.

Roka’s great. He might hit on you though so be ready for that. Irish has a big heart. A bit too sensitive for all the BS here. He reminds me of you in that way, so don’t let it all get to you!
@Reject lmao I'm still not used to getting hit on 😅 i be awkward lol. But I mean, I'm sensitive but not when it comes to SW. Like, I show my sensitivity here but people here can't possibly affect me enough to bring me down or affect my ways of thinking.
I think I'm sensitive on here because people irl rarely ever see my sensitivity. I joke all the time & if people ever gave me problems, I never wasted time arguing or pushing my POV onto them. I'd simply beat somebody's ass if they got too disrespectful or something but other than that people can't phase me. Mostly, it's me who hurts my own feelings 😅

I even think being so honest & vulnerable on here kinda helps me to show that a bit more in my rel life as well. It helps me be more comfortable with it overall
Pfuzylogic · M
There are a few absolute requirements before you join the club.
The very first is several warnings from admin on your profile.
Anyone else is a poser! 😎
Pfuzylogic · M
@itsok You want drama without trouble? 🤨
Honestly it doesn’t hurt that much.
It’s just like getting a shot.
Once you get the first, the next six aren’t that bad.
itsok · 31-35, F
@Pfuzylogic I’ve decided I don’t want the drama now
Pfuzylogic · M
@itsok That was my first couple of years here. Once you make the initial investment it takes very little effort now.
Coppercoil · M
Ohhh.. we know all about you and what you've done. How we know things we do is classified unfortunately. We don't let just anyone into the fold.
itsok · 31-35, F
@Coppercoil good morning coppy. tell me secretttts 😩
Coppercoil · M
@itsok cant 🥺 theyll kick me out if i do.
DDonde · 31-35, M
It's not worth it. Just people being dumb about people
itsok · 31-35, F
@DDonde I imagine not, but not being invited is a bit sad
I seem to be missing out all the time too. Are there secret meetings where the pot is stirred? Do you need an invitation for those? Is there a password?
itsok · 31-35, F
@NerdyPotato if you find anything out, lemme know, and I’ll do the same for you
@itsok deal!
You just become an expert at lurking lol. Then you learn everything just by seeing it all 🤣 it takes A LOT of boredom to get to that point probably lol
itsok · 31-35, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz I feel like I’m a great lurker, but I guess I’m not good enough. Maybe one day.
@itsok yeah I'm probably just mediocre lol.. but I do love when ai figure something out 😂 I'm like "oooohhh snap!"
Keeper · M
Not really drama but I did find an old small digital camera over the weekend...
itsok · 31-35, F
@Keeper NO you didn’t. Please send it to me. I need to look around at like a yard sale or second hand store or something.
Keeper · M
@itsok yeah, I was going through an old filing cabinet. I'll put it to good use
itsok · 31-35, F
@Keeper I look forward to your hat pictures
Lugubri0 · 56-60, M
I've no idea. I'm sure there's a se tion of this site I don't k ow about.
itsok · 31-35, F
@Lugubri0 I’m gonna find it 🕵️‍♀️
Lugubri0 · 56-60, M
@itsok It's a tough job but someone needs to do it
SW-User
I’m being dramatic on the outside
itsok · 31-35, F
@SW-User *unlocks my window*
SW-User
Honestly if you knew what went on it would just give you a headache
itsok · 31-35, F
@SW-User I know you’re right, I’m just curious 😕
tenente · 100+, M
this is a club i don't want to join 🤔
itsok · 31-35, F
@tenente yeah but I didn’t even know the club [i]existed[/i] 😩
tenente · 100+, M
@itsok knowledge is a curse 😞
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itsok · 31-35, F
@SW-User hey meany I thought you liked my hairy legs 😞
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