Tbh I’m happier not knowing. Half the time the drama is just people being shitty to each other and blaming the other person for it, and 100% of the time the people involved in the drama will just pull you into it and before you know it there’s drama about you.
And yeah it’s going on in PMs or group chats on other platforms. People use it as social currency even though it’s questionable whether it’s even true or not.